to split the difference
- phrasal verb
- Informal
- During the negotiations, both parties agreed to split the difference on the proposed salary.
And that was the epiphany because all I have to do is split the difference.
- And that was the epiphany because all I have to do is split the difference.
- I think that they're, you know, this is this is a, a clash of legitimate narratives that is impossible to exactly split the difference of.
- What's the difference if the difference is almost million people, You have to split the difference.
Examples
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But how do I split the difference?
Blog text (7) -
So let's split the difference and say that he may be back by Columbus Day weekend.
Blog text (25) -
Perhaps we could split the difference on materials.
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How about we split the difference?
Fiction book (1998) -
So I decided to split the difference.
Blog text (4) -
Why don't we split the difference?
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Let's split the difference, Mr. McCoy.
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In essence, the two sides would have to split the difference between their conflicting views of the past.
Academic text (2006) -
We'll split the difference.
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Let's split the difference.
Synonyms
To settle a disagreement by each side giving up something
Make an agreement after talking, often in business or politics
To accept less than you want in a discussion to reach an agreement
Each person gives up some of what they want to reach an agreement
To give each side part of what they want so both feel happy
Talk about things fully to reach an agreement when people disagree
Surface Forms
Morphology
split + the + difference
The meaning 'compromise by accepting a middle value' is directly derivable from 'split' (to divide) and 'difference' (the gap or amount between two proposals): to split the difference literally means to divide that gap and take the midpoint. This compositional logic is intuitive and cross-linguistically common (cf. 'meet halfway' or dividing the gap), so a B1 learner who knows the constituents will likely infer the MWE's meaning.
Etymology
Split the difference may come from a simple image: when two people disagree on a number, you split the difference by cutting the gap between them in half, like sharing a pie down the middle. So the phrase now means 'to compromise' or 'agree on a middle amount'.