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to split the baby

to split the baby

1 8.1
To give each side part of what they want so both feel happy
  • idiom
  • Informal
translation icon : dividir la diferencia
  • They end up sort of like splitting the baby and they send only some naval ships and no ground troops.

They end up sort of like splitting the baby and they send only some naval ships and no ground troops.

Examples

  • Joe Biden continues to try to, I don't know, split the baby by offering amnesty to hundreds of thousands of people.

  • Arbitrators may also be more likely to issue Solomonic "split the baby" decisions to make their employers, the parties, equally happy and increase the likelihood that the arbitrator will be selected by these parties in the future.

    Academic text (2007)
  • Roberts pretty much figured that the best way to split the baby was just to accept the mandate, since no anti-ACA interest group was being harmed by the existence of the mandate, and it was the pro-ACA interest groups that were affected by it.

    Blog text (3)
  • Or put another way: If you think you're so smart about the protection of American liberties and the simultaneous upholding of the principles of free speech and free enterprise, you try sitting up here on King Solomon's throne and splitting the baby along the proper lines.

    Blog text (3)
  • "My experience is that arbitrators usually just want to 'split the baby' in order to make both parties happy—or at least to try to avoid alienating either party to remain on 'the list' for future business," says Tom Vance, risk manager for the city of Anaheim, Calif.

    Academic text (1996)
  • The mediator suggested they split the baby by giving each party what they wanted in order to resolve the conflict smoothly.

  • In negotiations, sometimes it's best to split the baby to ensure that neither side feels completely defeated.

  • To satisfy both clients, the contractor decided to split the baby by adjusting the project timeline for each of them.

Synonyms

to compromise
vsto split the baby
215 3.7

To settle a disagreement by each side giving up something

divides the outcome between opposing parties rather than a general settlement
to cut a deal
vsto split the baby
  • Informal
94 3.5

Make an agreement after talking, often in business or politics

splits results between opposing parties specifically when no clear winner exists
to split the difference
vsto split the baby
  • Informal
9 4.1

Agree on a middle amount between two offers

divides the outcome between sides instead of picking a midpoint
to meet halfway
vsto split the baby
2 3.5

Each person gives up some of what they want to reach an agreement

splits the final result between the parties instead of mutual partial concessions

Surface Forms

split the baby infinitive
split the baby past participle
splitting the baby present participle
splits the baby third person singular

Morphology

split + the + baby

Although 'split' conveys division, the addition of 'baby' makes the phrase a cultural/idiomatic reference (Solomon's judgment) rather than a literal or compositional meaning. A B1 learner who knows 'split' and 'baby' would not reliably infer 'reach a compromise by dividing the outcome' from the words alone, so the expression is unpredictable without prior exposure or cultural knowledge.

Etymology

The idiom split the baby comes from a Bible story about King Solomon, where two women both claimed the same child and Solomon said to split the baby in two to find the true mother. So today split the baby means 'reach a compromise' by dividing the result so each side gets something.