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to settle down

to settle down

173 3.0
To start living a quiet, steady life by having a regular job or a family
  • phrasal verb
  • /ˈsɛtəl daʊn/
translation icon : establecerse
  • I had just turned thirty, and it was time to start settling down, at least a little.
  • settle down somewhere
  • settle down with a family

Do you ever see yourself settling down in the future with one woman?

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Examples

  • Why don't you settle down and get married, Walter?

  • I think the moment I do that is the moment I settle down and have kids.

  • Said it was time she married, settled down.

  • It's time to find a girl, settle down, do that whole thing.

  • Do you ever see yourself settling down in the future with one woman?

  • I learned how she had married young, settling down with her husband in a crowded college dorm.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • The time has come for Mila and Zesay to settle down.

  • After graduating, she decided it was time to settle down and start a family.

  • He plans to settle down in the countryside and enjoy a quieter life.

  • Once they find a suitable house, they are ready to settle down and raise their children.

Synonyms

to settle
vsto settle down
463 2.5

To live in a place, often for a long time

emphasizes starting a quiet steady life with job or family beyond mere residence
to settle in
vsto settle down
132 3.3

To start to feel comfortable and at home in a new place or job

is about starting a steady life with work or family not only adapting
to settle into
vsto settle down
41 3.3

Become comfortable in a new place, job, or routine

focuses on beginning a lasting quiet life rather than mere adjustment
to put down roots
vsto settle down
  • Informal
8 4.2

To start living in one place for a long time and make it your home

focuses more on beginning a quiet steady life with work or family
to take root
vsto settle down
6 4.0

To settle in one place and start living there

refers more to starting a lasting quiet life with job and home
to hang up one's hat
vsto settle down
  • Informal
1 7.7

To live in a place and make it your home

means starting a stable family life rather than only choosing residence
to grow up and settle down
vsto settle down
3.4

Become an adult and start a steady life with a job or family

is about starting a quiet steady life often by finding a job or marrying

How Settled

to settle down
173 3.0
to put down roots
  • Informal
8 4.2
to root
21 5.1
to stay put
  • Informal
133 2.0

Surface Forms

settle down infinitive
settled down past participle
settling down present participle
settles down third person singular

Morphology

settle + down

The verb 'settle' (become calm/come to rest) together with 'down' suggests becoming grounded or established, so a B1 learner who knows the parts can infer a general sense of stabilizing or calming. However the specific life-stage meaning (marrying, getting a steady job, establishing a home) is a metaphorical extension of that notion and not fully predictable without prior exposure, so it is only partially transparent.

Etymology

Settle down to mean starting a steady life comes from the picture of a traveler making a home: they put their things away, settle in and stay down in one place, so the phrase means 'begin a quiet, steady life'.