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self-possessed

self-possessed

3 7.2
Calm and confident in control of your feelings in difficult situations
  • adjective
  • /ˌsɛlf pəˈzɛst/
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  • In stressful situations, being self-possessed allows one to make better decisions.

And they're not going out of their way, which can seem like they're very confident, they're very composed, they're self possessed.

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Examples

  • And the children flourish, vibrant, funny, and blithely self-possessed.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • As self-possessed as Tia was, she would do very well in brainship service.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • Over the difficult course of it, she is obviously becoming more self-possessed, more at ease.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • One look and you knew she was solid, self-reliant, and utterly self-possessed.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • In his dream, he got up, feeling self-possessed, and brushed the road dirt off his shiny suit.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • She seemed remarkably sane and self-possessed.

  • There are times when I think he's nutty as a fruitcake, but he is always very self-possessed and seems to always know exactly what he is doing.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • Wade Van Dore said she was self-possessed in moments of crisis and that "outward calmness seemed to be hers by birthright."

    Academic text (1996)
  • Despite the unexpected challenges, she remained self-possessed and handled the situation calmly.

  • His self-possessed demeanor impressed everyone during the tense meeting.

Synonyms

confident
vsself-possessed
715 2.5

Feeling sure about yourself or what will happen

is specifically calm and in control during difficult times
self-assured
vsself-possessed
11 4.1

Confident about your abilities and decisions

emphasizes calm control in hard situations rather than only confidence
self-confident
vsself-possessed
11 3.2

Feeling sure about your own abilities and worth

is calmer and more controlled especially during stress
even-tempered
vsself-possessed
3 3.7

Calm and not easily annoyed or angry

applies calm control in pressure, not only steady temperament
self-contained
vsself-possessed
2 5.9

A person who is calm and does not show strong feelings

adds active confidence and control in hard moments
poised
vsself-possessed
1 5.1

Calm and confident in a difficult situation

focuses more on steady inner control and confidence
equanimous
vsself-possessed
  • Formal
1 9.5

Calm and steady in difficult situations

adds active assurance and outward control beyond mere calm
collected
vsself-possessed
3.9

Calm and in control during a difficult situation

is similar but also stresses inner assurance
self-collected
vsself-possessed
6.1

Calm and in control of your feelings in difficult situations

is like that but adds clearer self assurance
superconfident
vsself-possessed
  • Informal
5.2

Feeling very sure about your abilities and success

is about calm control and measured confidence, not excess certainty

How Composed

unflappable
9 7.4
self-possessed
3 7.2
composed
1 4.3
calm
735 1.0

Surface Forms

self-possessed positive

Morphology

self-possessed = self + possessed (semi-transparent) = self + possess + ed

The parts 'self' + 'possessed' point to 'having oneself', but the specific idiomatic sense 'calm, confident' is not fully predictable for all learners.

Etymology

Self-possessed combines self and possessed, where possessed here means 'to have' rather than 'to be owned by a spirit'. So a self-possessed person 'has' themselves and stays calm and in control of their feelings.