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nice guy syndrome

nice guy syndrome

7.9
A habit where some men act too friendly and give in to get approval
  • noun
  • /naɪs ɡaɪ ˈsɪnˌdroʊm/
translation icon : síndrome del buen chico
  • Many men struggle with nice guy syndrome, believing that being overly accommodating will win them affection.

Yeah, I just, I feel like the nice guy syndrome is easily avoidable.

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Examples

  • How much do you think of nice guy syndrome stems from just wanting and needing the love and validation of women?

  • And so in order to untangle this nice guy syndrome, let's recap what we need to do.

  • Yeah, I just, I feel like the nice guy syndrome is easily avoidable.

  • And so in order to untangle this nice guy syndrome, let's recap what we need to do.

  • He recognized that his nice guy syndrome was holding him back from forming genuine relationships.

  • To overcome nice guy syndrome, it's important to establish healthy boundaries and be true to oneself.

Synonyms

goody-goody
vsnice guy syndrome
  • Offensive
4 7.7

A person who always behaves very well to please teachers or adults

is more about pleasing others through constant agreeableness to gain approval or reward

Antonyms

50 3.0

Caring only about yourself and not about other people

9 7.3

To show no pity or kindness to reach a goal

How Accommodating

doormat
  • Offensive
15 6.4
nice guy syndrome
7.9
amenableness
  • Formal
8.4
helpfulness
3 2.3

Surface Forms

Morphology

nice + guy + syndrome

The components 'nice' + 'guy' + 'syndrome' transparently signal a recurring problem or pattern involving a (male) person who is 'nice' — the word 'syndrome' cues a set of symptoms/behaviour. However, the specific social-psychological nuance (that the niceness is excessive and often motivated by an expectation of reward/approval) is a pragmatic/conceptual extension that a B1 learner may not fully infer without prior exposure, so the expression is only partially predictable.

Etymology

Nice guy syndrome comes from the picture of a man who is always nice and does favors like a helpful guy in the hope of getting 'approval' or a 'reward'. So, it now means the habit of being too agreeable or too accommodating because you expect something in return.