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doormat

doormat

15 6.4
A person who lets others treat them badly without standing up for themselves
  • noun
  • /ˈdɔːrˌmæt/
  • Offensive
translation icon : [informal, despectivo] persona que se deja pisotear
  • Do not let them just walk all over you like a doormat, OK, good.
  • a perennial doormat
  • a big doormat

So bottom line, do not become a man's, any man's doormat.

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Examples

  • It's called being a doormat and that's why people walk all over you.

  • She's been using you as her doormat for the last 20 years.

  • - Well, stop being a doormat then!

  • No, I will not be their doormat and let them continue to hurt me!

    Blog text (12)
  • Sometimes I am a doormat and I do what people want me to do because I pick the path of least resistance.

  • Then stop being such a doormat.

  • For one thing, there is a big difference between a nice guy and a doormat.

    Blog text (17)
  • Even with family, you don't make yourself a doormat and put up with everything a family member may do.

    Blog text (28)
  • I didn't want you to think I was still a doormat.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • Don't let yourself be treated like a doormat by your friends; stand up for yourself.

Synonyms

groveler
vsdoormat
7.7

A person who behaves very humbly to please others or avoid trouble

lets others treat them badly by being submissive

Idioms

to be a doormat
  • Informal
4 8.4

To let other people treat you badly without saying no

How Submissive

doormat
  • Offensive
15 6.4
pushover
  • Offensive
18 5.1
compliant
31 5.1
accommodating
17 4.8
cooperative
119 3.5
leader
1.0
independent
984 2.3

Surface Forms

doormat singular
doormats plural

Morphology

doormat = door + mat (semi-transparent) = door + mat

The sense is a metaphorical extension from the literal object ('doormat') to a submissive person; components are recognizable but the figurative meaning is idiomatic.

Etymology

Doormat is also used for a person who is treated badly; imagine a person being 'walked on' like the mat at the door. That's why calling someone a doormat means they let others take advantage of them.