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loosener

1 4.9

A short story or activity that helps people feel relaxed

noun
/ˈluːsənər/

: relajante

For many people, a friendly drink is an effective loosener that helps them feel more comfortable in social settings.

Examples

Now, Swisher is a fine fielder and hitter, and he's been somewhat of a good luck charm and clubhouse loosener in his time in New York.

Blog text (24)
A few jokes acted as a great loosener, easing the tension in the room during the awkward meeting.
It's merely my favorite lip-loosener.

The Commitments (1991)
At the party, she brought a fun loosener that made everyone feel more relaxed and ready to socialize.

Synonyms

relaxer

vsloosener

5 4.2

Something that helps someone feel calm, like tea or soft music

is aimed specifically at easing social nervousness rather than general relaxation

mollifier

vsloosener

8.2

A person who calms others in tense situations

is usually a thing that makes people feel relaxed socially

easer

vsloosener

4.8

A person or thing that makes pain, worry and problems less strong

focuses narrowly on reducing social nervousness rather than general difficulty or pain

Antonyms

tension

509 3.2

A feeling of nervousness and anger between people or inside a person

How Relaxing

party game

8 1.2

loosener

1 4.9

icebreaker

13 4.1

small talk

Informal

65 2.1

Surface Forms

loosener singular

looseners plural

Morphology

loosener = loosen (transparent) = loosen + er

Derived from 'loosen' + '-er' with a metaphorical extension to reducing social tension; the relation is clear.

Etymology

Loosener comes from loose with -en and -er, so it means 'something that makes loose'. A social loosener works like an 'icebreaker' to make people feel less tense and more relaxed.