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to kiss goodbye

to kiss goodbye

2 5.0
Give up hope of getting something you want
  • phrasal verb
  • /kɪs ɡʊdˈbaɪ/
  • Informal
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  • He realized he would have to kiss goodbye to his plans for a vacation after his car broke down unexpectedly.

Examples

  • If tax money subsidies to private health insurance companies and no public option become law, then you can kiss goodbye for the next 1 or 2 generations any possibility of a public option.

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  • ♪ I wish I could say no regrets, no emotional debts ♪ But as we kiss goodbye, the sun sets

  • Know what else you can kiss goodbye?

  • You can kiss goodbye on seeing her again.

  • "I turn away to ease his discomfort as they kiss goodbye."

    Fiction book (2002)
  • We hugged and kissed goodbye, again and again.

  • On his way out, they kissed goodbye again at the door, Margarita still naked, waiting and holding it open for him.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • Nokia can kiss goodbye to all of their services as there's no place for those next to Google's crap.

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  • After losing the final match, the coach told the team they should kiss goodbye to their championship dreams.

  • When she decided to move away for a new job, she had to kiss goodbye to her old friends and familiar life.

Synonyms

to say goodbye
vsto kiss goodbye
562 1.0

To tell someone you are leaving and wish them well

means accepting loss or letting something go with regret
to wave goodbye
vsto kiss goodbye
19 1.3

Move your hand back and forth to show you are saying goodbye

refers to accepting loss emotionally rather than making a parting gesture
to say farewell
vsto kiss goodbye
  • Formal
12 3.8

To tell someone goodbye before you leave, often in a formal or sad way

means accepting loss rather than offering formal parting words
to say hooroo
vsto kiss goodbye
  • Australian
9.9

To say goodbye to someone in a friendly, informal way

highlights acceptance and letting go rather than casual regional parting

Antonyms

111 3.3

To hold tightly to something or keep believing something strongly in hard times

72 1.6

To keep something instead of selling or giving it away

How Resigned

to write off
23 4.8
to kiss goodbye
  • Informal
2 5.0
to accept
3.5
to hold on
173 3.3

Surface Forms

kiss goodbye infinitive
kissed goodbye past participle
kissing goodbye present participle
kisses goodbye third person singular

Morphology

kiss + goodbye

The phrase combines the literal actions 'kiss' + 'goodbye' to signal saying farewell to something, so a B1 learner who knows the words can likely infer a meaning of letting go or saying farewell to an opportunity. However, the figurative nuance of accepting loss or resigned giving-up is metaphorical and not fully predictable from the parts, so the expression is only partially transparent.

Etymology

Kiss goodbye may come from the simple act of giving a last kiss as someone says goodbye and will not return, a final touch that shows you accept the farewell. That's why the phrase means 'to accept the loss' or 'to let go'.