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ingratiatory

ingratiatory

9.6
Trying to please someone to get their approval, often not sincere
  • adjective
  • /ɪnˈɡreɪʃəˌtɔri/
translation icon : adulador
  • She adopted an ingratiatory tone when asking for an extension on her assignment.

Examples

  • His ingratiatory comments were clearly meant to win over the new manager.

  • The politician's ingratiatory gestures did not go unnoticed by the public.

  • His ingratiatory comments made everyone feel uncomfortable.

  • She used ingratiatory language to win over her boss.

  • His ingratiatory comments were clearly meant to win over the new manager.

  • The politician's ingratiatory gestures did not go unnoticed by the public.

  • She adopted an ingratiatory tone when asking for an extension on her assignment.

Synonyms

flattering
vsingratiatory
57 4.2

Giving praise that is too much and not sincere to gain someone's favor

aims to gain approval by actions or speech, not only praise
sycophantic
vsingratiatory
  • Formal
4 9.2

Giving too much praise to an important person to gain favor

aims to gain approval from anyone rather than only powerful people
ingratiating
vsingratiatory
1 7.3

Pretending to be friendly to make someone like you

has identical sense but differs only in word form
insinuating
vsingratiatory
1 7.5

Acting in a soft, sly way to win someone's trust

aims to gain approval but not necessarily in a subtle or sly way
bootlicking
vsingratiatory
  • Offensive
8.6

Acting too friendly and praising people in power to get favors

seeks approval but not always with extreme servile behaviour
toadyish
vsingratiatory
9.9

Being too friendly and praising someone important to get favor

seeks approval but not always by servile submission to authority
coaxing
vsingratiatory
4.8

Tending to persuade someone gently with friendly words or actions

aims to gain approval rather than mainly persuading someone to act

Antonyms

31 4.5

Not good for success or approval

5 3.4

Showing that you do not agree with or like something

How Ingratiating

sycophantic
  • Formal
4 9.2
obsequious
  • Formal
7 9.3
ingratiating
1 7.3
ingratiatory
9.6
complimentary
18 4.2

Surface Forms

ingratiatory positive

Morphology

ingratiatory = ingratiate (transparent) = ingratiate + ory

The adjective is formed by adding the productive adjectival suffix '-ory' to the verb 'ingratiate', yielding a meaning clearly related to 'intended to ingratiate'.

Etymology

The word ingratiatory comes from the parts in- and grati-, where in- means 'into' and grati- comes from a Latin word for 'favor' or 'thanks', the same root in grace and grateful. So, something ingratiatory is meant to win someone's 'favor' by trying to please them, often in a way that is not sincere.