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henpeck

henpeck

9.1
Constant criticism or control of a partner that wears them down
  • noun
  • /ˈhɛnˌpɛk/
  • Archaic
: regañina
  • He felt the constant henpeck at home was wearing him down.

Examples

  • The movie portrayed a character who suffered from endless henpeck by his spouse.

  • He experienced persistent henpeck from his wife about his spending habits.

  • Some people believe that henpeck can damage a relationship over time.

  • His friends often joked about his henpeck behavior.

  • She doesn't want to be seen as a henpeck wife.

  • Many couples struggle with henpeck, leading to conflicts in their relationship.

  • Her friends warned her that constant henpeck could harm her marriage.

Synonyms

nagging
vshenpeck
36 4.6

Always complaining in an irritating way

is aimed specifically at a partner and seeks to control or criticize them
shrewishness
vshenpeck
  • Offensive
1 9.9

Being often angry and criticizing others in a harsh, nagging way

is the persistent controlling or criticizing behavior aimed at a partner

Antonyms

∞ 1.0

Give help to a person or idea

How Controlling

domination
90 4.7
henpeck
  • Archaic
9.1
nagging
36 4.6
criticism
649 3.0

Surface Forms

henpeck singular
henpecks plural

Morphology

henpeck = hen + peck (semi-transparent) = hen + peck

The phrase 'hen peck' clearly motivates the idea of repeated pecking, but its use to mean 'persistent nagging' is an idiomatic extension.

Etymology

Henpeck comes from the picture of a hen that pecks, which means 'to poke or bite again and again', and so the word also means the act of constant nagging or control in a relationship.