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hard to please

hard to please

5 6.1
A person who is not easily satisfied and often complains
  • idiom
translation icon : difícil de complacer
  • My father is very hard to please; he always finds faults with every gift I give him.
  • try hard to please
  • really hard to please
  • too hard to please

Examples

  • You never used to be so hard to please.

  • You're kind of hard to please.

    Blog text (9)
  • Even for someone as hard to please as yourself.

  • - You are hard to please.

  • Are you hard to please?

  • His mom was hard to please, too.

    Academic text (2011)
  • I try so hard to please him, but nothing is ever good enough.

    Blog text (1)
  • You know me, I'm hard to please.

    Blog text (26)
  • I'm not that hard to please.

    Blog text (29)
  • Some individuals become irritable when they are sick and may be hard to please.

    Academic text (2015)

Synonyms

difficult
vshard to please
386 2.1

Hard to control or deal with, often not willing to help

is more specific about being fussy and expecting high standards rather than trouble
particular
vshard to please
106 4.4

Careful about small details and hard to please

is the broader description that adds general demanding difficulty to satisfy
picky
vshard to please
67 4.7

Being hard to please about food or small details

is used for people who are fussy and demanding across situations
choosy
vshard to please
15 3.9

Hard to please when choosing things like clothes or food

is broader and describes a generally fussy demanding attitude beyond choices
high-maintenance
vshard to please
  • Informal
13 6.7

Needing a lot of care and attention

is similar but highlights general fussiness and long term demanding care
finicky
vshard to please
12 7.1

Hard to please and careful about small details

is similar but highlights general fussiness and higher overall demand for care
fastidious
vshard to please
8 8.0

Very careful about small details and being clean, often hard to please

is similar but covers broader fussiness and also demanding behaviour
insatiate
vshard to please
  • Literature
1 9.9

A person or feeling that always wants more and is never pleased

is milder and means someone is fussy and can sometimes be satisfied
choosey
vshard to please
  • Informal
6.8

A person who is very picky about what they accept

is the more general term for fussy behaviour and high demands
overly fussy
vshard to please
6.1

Too worried about small details and hard to please

is less extreme describing typical fussiness rather than excessive perfectionism
demanding
vshard to please
4.1

Needing a lot of time, effort, or attention

is about being fussy and selective rather than only needing much effort
unsatiable
vshard to please
9.9

Always wanting more and never feeling content

is less extreme and allows that people can be satisfied despite fussiness

How Picky

fastidious
8 8.0
hard to please
5 6.1
fussy
24 3.9
picky
67 4.7
undemanding
1 3.5

Surface Forms

hard to please positive

Morphology

hard + to + please

The meaning 'difficult to satisfy' is directly and compositionally derived from 'hard' (difficult) combined with the infinitival 'to please' (to cause someone to feel pleased); the pattern 'hard to + verb' transparently expresses difficulty. This is a regular grammatical construction found across languages, so a B1 learner who knows the constituent words will readily infer the MWE meaning.

Etymology

Hard to please comes from the simple image of someone whose feelings are hard, like a stone, so nothing you do to please them makes them soft or happy. So, the phrase means 'difficult to satisfy'.