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familiarity

familiarity

5 6.7
Acting too friendly or close with someone you do not know well
  • noun
  • /fəˌmɪl.jəˈrɪ.ti/
translation icon : familiaridad excesiva
  • "Of course, this was the sort of young man who would presume familiarity.

Trauma bonds can sadly mean that familiarity doesn't breed contempt, but rather that familiarity breeds confusion.

Examples

  • Begging your pardon for the familiarity, sir, but it takes a good wife to turn a collar like that.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • On the other side of the ledger, the familiarity is maybe my biggest problem with the piece.

    Blog text (21)
  • The only weird thing was that there was a hint of familiarity in it.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • The strange familiarity of the invitation caught her ear, if not yet her eyes.

    Fiction book (2000)
  • I make a point of avoiding familiarity with pirates.

  • Exchanging names offered a familiarity he had no wish to share with this creature.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • At first, his conversation betrayed a sauciness and familiarity, which is my aversion.

  • Charlotte followed immediately behind her, startled by the familiarity with which the girl greeted Caroline.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • "What kind of name is Sean for a Jewish boy?" he inquired with amused familiarity.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • Her familiarity with the celebrity made him uncomfortable during the conversation.

Synonyms

liberty
vsfamiliarity
  • Informal
92 7.1

An action that is too familiar and shows disrespect for someone's boundaries

is broader inappropriate intimacy in speech or behaviour rather than a single act
impropriety
vsfamiliarity
  • Formal
19 8.1

An action or remark that is not socially acceptable

is focused on intimacy and informality rather than general indecency
overfamiliarity
vsfamiliarity
7.4

Being too friendly with someone so they feel disrespected

is undue intimacy or overly informal speech and behaviour
indecorum
vsfamiliarity
  • Formal
9.9

Bad behaviour that breaks common polite rules

is more specific to undue intimacy or overly informal speech and conduct

Antonyms

formality
  • Formal
11 5.4

A serious way of behaving that follows rules and tradition

9 5.2

A quiet way of acting that shows little emotion

How Familiar

familiarity
5 6.7
friendliness
16 1.0
reserve
9 5.2

Surface Forms

familiarity singular
familiarities plural

Morphology

familiarity = familiar (semi-transparent) = familiar + ity

The noun is formed from 'familiar' but the specialised negative pragmatic sense 'undue intimacy' is a nuance that may not be immediately deducible by learners.

Etymology

Familiarity comes from the Latin familiaris, meaning 'of the household', and is the same root as family and familiar. So familiarity can also mean being too informal or too close, like acting as if someone is family when that is not appropriate.