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disarming

disarming

4 4.8
Making someone feel less angry or suspicious by being friendly
  • adjective
  • /dɪˈzɑrmɪŋ/
translation icon : desarmante
  • You don't realise just how disarming that sentence is.
  • disarming smile
  • very disarming
  • so disarming

It's a disarming body language used by liars.

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Examples

  • As long as it's honest, it's so disarming.

    Blog text (2)
  • Jennifer Joan Taylor is utterly disarming as the sweet-tempered Dinah, who just wants to reconnect with life and reclaim her husband's affection.

    Blog text (1)
  • The offer was so disarming that I was at a loss for an answer.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • But they were very disarming in the way they let me know how things were.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • She's a disarming young woman.

  • Whether virtual or real, such visits are disarming and enlightening.

    Academic text (2008)
  • Her appearance today, at once disarming and challenging, is probably due to her schoolgirl coiffure.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • No longer shy, she is friendly in a childishly naive and utterly disarming way.

    Academic text (1992)
  • You're very disarming.

  • Her charming personality was so disarming that it made everyone feel at ease.

Synonyms

appeasing
vsdisarming
6.3

Calming someone by agreeing to what they want

uses charm and friendliness rather than concessions

Antonyms

194 4.6

Showing strong dislike or opposition

How Disarming

captivating
14 4.2
charming
418 1.0
disarming
4 4.8
pleasant
89 1.0
friendly
773 1.0

Surface Forms

disarming positive

Morphology

disarming = disarm (semi-transparent) = dis + arm + ing

The adjectival meaning 'charming' is a figurative extension of 'disarm' (to remove defences), so the relation is understandable but involves metaphorical shift.

Etymology

Disarming comes from the parts dis- 'remove' and arm 'weapon', and it gives a clear picture: a 'disarming' smile 'takes away' a person's weapons. So a disarming person makes others less suspicious or angry by being friendly.