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to dally

to dally

1 8.2
To behave in a playful romantic way without serious interest
  • verb
  • /ˈdæli/
translation icon : coquetear
  • He tends to dally with flirtatious banter instead of committing to a real relationship.
  • dally with a man

Examples

  • Dreamina was shapely, petite, auburn-haired, and had only that morning entered the brief phase in a rich girl's life when she wished to dally with a man beneath her station just for the experience.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • Tell His Majesty we've also taken a vow not to dally with females... ...till all his enemies are vanquished.

  • "Not to marry, but to dally with." "I hope my husband encounters none such," Bunny said.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • Their husbands suspected they were late because they were dallying with other men along the way.

    Blog text (17)
  • And you're dallying with the writer.

  • You're dilly-dallying with sir Philip and young Ben.

  • "Then they'd pop up in my bed whilst I was dallying with Nicky.

    Fiction book (2001)
  • In addition to feasting and dallying with Tahitian beauties, the French had serious tasks to perform.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • The card players, the lovers who dally, he sees the king in an ermine cloak with his fortune stashed in hogshead drums.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • She loves to dally with various romantic interests but never takes any of them seriously.

Synonyms

to flirt
vsto dally
267 3.1

Behave playfully or tease someone to show romantic interest

focuses on casual, nonserious behaviour rather than lasting interest
to romance
vsto dally
16 5.3

To try to attract someone you like, often with gifts or kind words

is lighter and lacks the genuine courtship or serious intent
to mash
vsto dally
  • UK
8 9.9

To flirt with someone without wanting a serious relationship

is the same casual sense but without formal or serious aims
to chat up
vsto dally
  • NSFW
4 7.8

Talk to someone in a friendly way to try to start a romantic relationship

is more casual and lacks the clear aim to attract seriously
to butterfly
vsto dally
  • Informal
1 8.3

To talk and act in a playful way to show romantic interest without serious intent

emphasizes casual, nonserious interaction rather than deliberate courting
to coquet
vsto dally
9.9

To act in a flirty way without serious interest

is playful and nonserious rather than aiming for a real relationship
to coquette
vsto dally
9.3

Behave in a playful, flirty way to get attention

is more about light teasing than sincere romantic pursuit

Phrasal Verbs

To delay longer than you should and risk missing something

How Serious

to court
  • Formal
36 4.2
to lead on
  • Informal
24 6.0
to dally
1 8.2
to banter
  • Informal
9 4.6

Surface Forms

dally infinitive
dallied past
dallied past participle
dallying present participle
dallies third person singular

Etymology

Dally comes from the old French verb dallier meaning 'to play', and that sense of 'playing' led to the idea of 'playing with feelings'. So, to dally with someone is to behave flirtatiously or toy with their feelings without real intention.