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to consummate

to consummate

17 8.5
To complete a marriage by having sex
  • verb
  • /ˈkɒnsəˌmeɪt/
  • NSFW
translation icon : consumar
  • A marriage isn't official until it's been consummated.
  • consummate the marriage
  • consummating his love
  • never consummated

And so when you get married and when you consummate that marriage in sex, there is some some mystical joining.

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Examples

  • By the end of the week, the marriage was still not consummated.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • A year after their union, Solange complains that the marriage has yet to be consummated.

    Academic text (2017)
  • Now you best go ahead and consummate the marriage.

  • I'll come out in the next couple weekends, and we'll consummate.

  • But the marriage has not yet been consummated, sir.

  • If you send him away, we shall consummate our love without the bonds of vows.

  • The marriage was finally consummated on Sita's next visit to her husband, some months later.

    Academic text (1990)
  • On the second night, she slept alone with her husband in his hut, and the marriage was consummated.

    Academic text (2007)
  • They consummated their love.

  • They will now consummate the marriage under the witness of the tribe.

Synonyms

to have sex
vsto consummate
  • NSFW
3.0

To touch each other's private parts for physical pleasure

serves to make a marriage or relationship complete
to do it
vsto consummate
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999 9.8

To have sex with someone

serves to make a marriage or relationship complete rather than casual talk
to have intercourse
vsto consummate
  • NSFW
23 8.1

To have sex with someone

serves specifically to make a marriage or relationship complete
to copulate
vsto consummate
  • NSFW
10 7.9

To have sex, usually used for animals or in biology

serves to make a marriage or relationship complete rather than being a biological term

Antonyms

210 5.1

Refuse to give something someone wants or needs

How Formal

to take
  • NSFW
262 9.9
to consummate
  • NSFW
17 8.5
to make love
  • NSFW
296 5.3
to have sex
  • NSFW
3.0
to sleep with
  • NSFW
652 7.4
to fuck
  • Offensive
9.9

Surface Forms

consummate infinitive
consummated past participle
consummating present participle
consummates third person singular

Morphology

consummate = con + summ + ate

The sexual sense is a specialized extension of 'to complete' and cannot reliably be predicted from the visible morphemes by average learners; the morphemes themselves are not transparent in modern English usage.

Etymology

Consummate (verb, marriage) kept the basic meaning 'to make complete' from Latin con- ('together') and summus ('highest' or 'top'), and was used for marriage to mean completing the union. So to consummate a marriage is to finish or 'complete' it by having sexual intercourse.