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to come by

to come by

762 3.9
Visit someone at home without calling first
  • phrasal verb
  • /kʌm baɪ/
  • Informal
: pasar por
  • I just wanted to come by and see if you kids needed anything.
  • come by the office

Misk Fame came by to do his fitting.

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Examples

  • He was supposed to come by and fix my sink.

  • I thought I'd come by and let you know what's happening.

  • Someone will come by in the morning.

  • Can I come by and see you?

  • Perhaps you will come by our camp tonight and we can continue this talk.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • Hey, uh, can I come by your sister's house?

  • Louis and Barbara came by to visit me now and then.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • Okay, Leos going to come by for a minute, all right?

  • "Why don't you come by my office tomorrow morning and we'll see what we can do?"

    Academic text (2005)
  • I decided to come by and check on you after hearing about your illness.

Synonyms

to see
vsto come by
  • Informal
∞ 1.0

To have a romantic relationship with someone

focuses on informal, often unplanned visits rather than romantic meetings
to stop by
vsto come by
  • Informal
560 2.5

To make a short visit to a person or place

focuses specifically on informal visits to people rather than places
to drop by
vsto come by
  • Informal
197 2.5

To visit someone or a place for a short time without planning

can refer to informal visits that may last longer or recur
to pay a visit
vsto come by
127 2.3

To go to someone's home or another place for a short time

is used informally and often without prior arrangement or planning
to drop in
vsto come by
  • Informal
93 3.6

Visit someone without arranging it first

often happens repeatedly without prior arrangement or planning
to come on over
vsto come by
  • Informal
80 2.6

To go to someone's home when they invite you to visit

often implies visiting without invitation or planning, informally and casually
to swing by
vsto come by
80 3.7

Visit a place for a short time while on the way somewhere

usually refers to going to a person's place specifically, not passing en route
to call in
vsto come by
  • UK
24 2.8

Pay a short, often unplanned visit to someone

may mean informal visiting but not limited to short, quick stops
to drop in for coffee
vsto come by
  • Informal
1 2.3

To visit someone informally to have coffee and chat

is more general and applies to any informal visit without a fixed purpose

How Long

to stay over
  • Informal
61 3.0
visit
∞ 1.0
to come by
  • Informal
762 3.9
to drop by
  • Informal
197 2.5
to pop in
  • Informal
40 3.4

Surface Forms

come by infinitive
coming by present participle
comes by third person singular
came by past
come by past participle

Morphology

come + by

The sense 'to visit informally' is transparently derived from 'come' (move toward/arrive) plus 'by' (pass near or stop briefly): together they literally convey coming by someone's place. This motion+particle composition is common cross-linguistically and follows standard English phrasal-verb patterns, so a B1 learner who knows both constituents would likely infer the meaning.

Etymology

Come by may come from the image of a friend who comes by your house—walking past and stopping in for a quick visit. That's why come by means 'to visit someone informally', often without calling first.