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apron string

apron string

2 6.8
Being too dependent on your parents, especially your mother, so you are not independent
  • noun
  • /ˈeɪprən strɪŋ/
  • Informal
translation icon : dependencia materna
  • A smart lad doesn't stay tied to his mother's apron strings.
  • cut the apron strings
  • mother's apron strings
  • tied to her apron strings

Examples

  • After graduating from college, he decided it was time to cut the apron strings and live independently.

  • Before I ever met him, he was tied to his mama's apron strings.

    Fiction book (2000)
  • And Essie's apron strings were like chains, let me tell you.

    Fiction book (2000)
  • Many people have a hard time cutting their apron strings and stepping out on their own after moving back home.

  • She felt like she was still tied to her parents' apron strings even though she was in her thirties.

Antonyms

608 3.0

Freedom from control by others, for example when a country is free or a person supports themselves

How Dependent

apron string
  • Informal
2 6.8
dependence
60 3.6
reliance
80 3.2
autonomy
28 5.7

Surface Forms

apron string singular
apron strings plural

Morphology

apron + string

The literal constituents 'apron' (protective cloth) and 'string' (thin cord) do not directly convey the social meaning of continued dependence on one's mother; the phrase is a conventionalized metaphor (apron-strings) for maternal control that is culturally specific and not compositionally predictable. A B1 learner who knows the two words but has not encountered the idiom would be unlikely to infer the dependent/parental-control sense.

Etymology

Apron strings comes from the picture of a child holding a mother's apron by its ties; being 'tied to the apron strings' looked like you could not leave or act alone, so it now means 'dependence' or 'being controlled' by a parent.