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with kid gloves

with kid gloves

6 7.3
To treat someone very carefully so you do not upset them
  • idiom
  • Informal
translation icon : con guantes de seda
  • He always talks to her with kid gloves to avoid hurting her feelings.
  • treat with kid gloves
  • handle with kid gloves

They're going to treat her with kid gloves and even worse yet, create this new false narrative about who Kamala Harris is and to try to reshape her record.

Examples

  • They don't want to be treated with kid gloves.

  • Treating her with kid gloves at this point is absurd.

    Blog text (15)
  • My father always said we had to "treat her with kid gloves."

    Fiction book (1991)
  • "Claims he has to handle you with kid gloves..."

    Fiction book (1995)
  • I have been treating you with kid gloves your entire life.

  • Dad treats Mom with kid gloves.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • After all, people only treat you with kid gloves when they respect you as someone capable of being treated like an adult.

    Blog text (17)
  • He's not gonna treat anyone with kid gloves.

  • I'll handle her with kid gloves if it'll make you happy.

  • Hey, don't feel like you gotta treat me with kid gloves, Cyn.

Synonyms

carefully
vswith kid gloves
978 1.0

In a way that shows attention and caution to avoid mistakes or harm

focuses more on protecting feelings and preventing social harm
gently
vswith kid gloves
372 1.0

To do something with little force to avoid hurting or making noise

emphasises careful social sensitivity to avoid hurting feelings
cautiously
vswith kid gloves
70 2.3

To do something in a careful way to avoid danger or mistakes

is centred on gentleness and avoiding emotional upset rather than risk
diplomatically
vswith kid gloves
26 5.5

In a way that avoids upsetting people when you talk to them

is more gentle, focusing on not upsetting individuals or worsening matters
gingerly
vswith kid gloves
23 4.6

In a very careful, slow way to avoid damage or getting hurt

is aimed more at avoiding emotional upset rather than physical risk
tactfully
vswith kid gloves
4 4.4

In a careful, kind way when talking to avoid hurting someone's feelings

is gentler still, prioritising avoiding upset or worsening situations
circumspectly
vswith kid gloves
  • Formal
1 8.3

To act carefully after thinking about possible problems and results

leans more toward gentle sensitivity to avoid upsetting people
inoffensively
vswith kid gloves
4.4

In a way that does not upset or hurt people

adds extra care aimed at preventing upset and social harm
light-handedly
vswith kid gloves
6.5

To act gently and carefully without using force

adds intentional social caution to avoid hurting feelings or worsening things

Antonyms

49 3.5

In a severe or unkind way that feels unpleasant

20 1.0

In a way that you do something without thinking or paying attention

How Careful

with kid gloves
  • Informal
6 7.3
tactfully
4 4.4
carefully
978 1.0
carelessly
20 1.0
recklessly
30 4.6

Surface Forms

with kid gloves positive

Morphology

with + kid + glove

The idea of wearing soft 'kid' (soft leather) 'gloves' suggests gentle handling, so part of the meaning is derivable from the constituents. However the mapping from soft gloves to the abstract sense of treating someone tactfully is a metaphorical extension and depends on knowing 'kid' as a leather type (not 'child'), so it is not fully predictable to a B1 learner without prior exposure.

Etymology

With kid gloves comes from very soft gloves made from young goat skin called kid, which people wore to handle delicate things without damage. So, to treat someone with kid gloves means to deal with them very gently or 'carefully' to avoid upsetting them.