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where to shove it

where to shove it

9.9
A rude phrase telling someone you refuse their request and they should go away
  • idiom
  • Offensive
translation icon : metérselo por el culo
  • She told her boss where to shove it when he demanded she work overtime again.

Examples

  • If you don't like my decision, you know where to shove it.

  • I told him where to shove it after his rude comment.

  • After the unfair criticism, he just said, 'You can guess where to shove it.'

  • You can take your advice and know where to shove it!

  • If you don't like my decision, you know where to shove it.

  • She told her boss where to shove it when he demanded she work overtime again.

  • I told him where to shove it after his rude comment.

Synonyms

to go to hell
vswhere to shove it
  • Offensive
67 9.5

Tell someone angrily that you do not care about them

is aimed at rejecting a suggestion with contempt rather than a personal wish for harm
kiss my ass
vswhere to shove it
  • Offensive
49 9.9

To tell someone rudely that you do not care about their opinion or order

focuses on rejecting suggestions with contempt rather than showing defiant indifference
to shove it
vswhere to shove it
  • Offensive
38 9.9

Tell someone angrily to go away and that you will not accept their idea

is stronger and shows contempt rather than just anger or refusal
to get stuffed
vswhere to shove it
  • Offensive
2 9.9

Tell someone rudely to go away or leave you alone

is the general rude expression, not limited to a regional slang term
to pound sand
vswhere to shove it
  • Offensive
2 9.9

Tell someone to go away in a rude way

is ruder and more contemptuous, rejecting suggestions with stronger disdain
shove it up your ass
vswhere to shove it
  • Offensive
1 9.9

A very rude way to tell someone you strongly refuse their idea or order

is less explicit in language while still rejecting with contempt
to tell someone where to shove it
vswhere to shove it
  • Offensive
9.9

Rudely say to someone that you want them to go away

is used to reject suggestions with contempt rather than only to make someone leave
heck no
vswhere to shove it
  • Informal
8.9

A strong way to refuse a suggestion or request

is ruder and contemptuous, not just a blunt refusal

Antonyms

793 1.0

To take something someone offers, for example a gift or invitation

How Rude

to insult
  • Offensive
543 2.1
where to shove it
  • Offensive
9.9
where to get off
  • Offensive
1 9.9
to show the door
  • Informal
6 6.7
to refuse
716 1.7
to decline
272 3.4

Surface Forms

Morphology

where + to + shove + it

Although 'shove' means 'to push' and 'it' is a pronoun, the use 'shove it' (and the variant 'where to shove it') functions as a contemptuous, idiomatic dismissal rather than a literal instruction about pushing. This rude/metaphorical sense is language-specific and not predictably derivable from the constituent words, so a B1 learner who only knows the parts would likely not infer the meaning.

Etymology

The idiom where to shove it comes from a rude, literal image: to shove (push hard) it into a private or hidden place. One popular story says this image means 'I reject your idea with anger and disrespect', so today people use it to tell someone off and refuse them completely.