water under the bridge
- idiom
- Informal
- Don't worry about our past disagreements; it's all water under the bridge.
- a lot of water under the bridge
- just water under the bridge
- water under the bridge now
So we, we we decided that we both wanted to kind of just talk about water under the bridge.
- So we, we we decided that we both wanted to kind of just talk about water under the bridge.
Examples
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That's a lot of water under the bridge, huh, Jack?
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Mr. Wunderlich told the newspaper that it had nothing to do with Ms. Daniels's resignation, calling the episode "water under the bridge."
Academic text (2016) -
It's all water under the bridge, I guess.
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It's all water under the bridge now.
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It's water under the bridge.
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Now I guess you think everything that happened is water under the bridge.
Fiction book (1999) -
Lots of water under the bridge since then.
Fiction book (1998) -
I didn't find out about it till after he was dead, and by then it was water under the bridge.
Fiction book (1996) -
I would like to see McGwire admit that steroids did help him, but I suppose that's water under the bridge right now with most fans.
Blog text (21) -
"Of course, I know you and she had a few tumbles in the hay once, but all that's water under the bridge now, I guess, huh?"
Fiction book (1996)
Synonyms
Something that people do not use or think about anymore
Problems from the past people keep bringing up
A past event or fact that many people no longer care about
Completely finished and no longer talked about
An object, custom, or idea from long ago that seems out of date
Something that is no longer important or worth talking about
Something bad that already happened and cannot be changed so do not worry about it
Ideas or things people now see as old and useless
Surface Forms
Morphology
water + under + the + bridge
The phrase evokes the literal image of water flowing beneath a bridge to indicate something that has passed and cannot be changed; a learner who knows the words may infer a sense of pastness but not necessarily the pragmatic nuance that it is no longer important or worth discussing. The meaning relies on a figurative mapping (flowing away/irretrievable) that is somewhat predictable from the parts but requires cultural/idiomatic knowledge, so it is not fully transparent.
Etymology
Water under the bridge uses the image of water flowing under a bridge and moving on, so you cannot get it back. That's why it means 'something in the past that is no longer important'.