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to toy with

to toy with

29 4.5
To think about an idea or plan without deciding
  • phrasal verb
  • /tɔɪ wɪð/
translation icon : jugar con
  • And so I was also toying with the idea of law school and trying to think about what might be most practical.
  • toyed with the idea
  • toyed with the notion

Yeah, Yeah, there's a, a company that I'm, I'm toying with investing in and they do this for people.

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Examples

  • For a while, I seriously toyed with the idea of calling myself Mr. Pretentious.

    Fiction book (2000)
  • And it's a simple thing and I'm toying with the idea of using this sort of problem on the exam.

  • So a while ago I was toying with the idea of making a set of Mass Effect armor.

  • The United States and Russia have long toyed with the idea of having an energy dialogue.

    Academic text (2009)
  • I could tell when he was questioning me that he was toying with the idea.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • In college, she toyed with many subjects, but ultimately found herself attracted to African history.

    Academic text (2005)
  • I was already kind of toying with vegetarianism.

  • Actually, I was toying with the idea of leaving the moustache on.

  • Matt and I have been looking at our house plans and our building plans, and we are toying with the idea of having a utility room or laundry room upstairs.

  • In college, I toyed with the idea of studying abroad for a semester.

Synonyms

to think about
vsto toy with
1.0

To give attention to something in your mind

considers ideas casually without committing to a firm choice
to think of
vsto toy with
1.0

Keep a person or thing in your mind when making plans

reserves ideas for casual consideration rather than deciding on them
to entertain
vsto toy with
82 4.2

Think about an idea or possibility

considers possibilities without reaching a final decision
to toy
vsto toy with
67 5.5

To handle something in a playful, not serious way

considers possibilities in a light way without making a firm choice
to play around
vsto toy with
  • Informal
47 3.4

To try something in a casual playful way without being serious

considers ideas lightly rather than making a definite decision
to tease
vsto toy with
  • NSFW
39 3.5

To make someone feel excited or curious without telling them more

provokes interest rather than simply weighing an idea without decision
to kick around
vsto toy with
  • Informal
9 4.6

Discuss an idea informally without making a decision

is used for casual consideration rather than firm commitment
to dally
vsto toy with
1 7.5

To think about an idea without planning to do it

considers ideas casually but without firm decision

Antonyms

1.0

To make a choice after thinking about the options

How Serious

to consider
1.1
to toy with
29 4.5
to dally
1 7.5

Surface Forms

toy with infinitive
toyed with past
toyed with past participle
toying with present participle
toys with third person singular

Morphology

toy + with

The phrase 'toy with' is a metaphorical extension of the verb 'toy' (to handle or play with something) applied to abstract objects: treating an idea playfully or without commitment. This physical-to-mental mapping is fairly clear but requires a figurative transfer, so a B1 learner who knows the parts will likely guess the general sense but not the exact pragmatic nuance, making it semi-transparent.

Etymology

Toy with comes from the simple image of someone playing with a small toy in their hands and not doing anything serious. So, if you toy with an idea, you 'consider' it lightly and do not make a firm decision.