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tough love

tough love

31 4.5
A strict way of caring that helps someone improve
  • noun
  • /tʌf lʌv/
translation icon : disciplina estricta
  • When your children misbehave, sometimes you have to practice tough love to help them learn right from wrong.

And he was, I suppose you could call it tough love of some sort.

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Examples

  • And welcome to a tough love episode of the Mel Robbins Podcast.

  • For those who need a dose of tough love cloaked in humor, this book may be the perfect read.

    Blog text (24)
  • These plants are in need of some real tough love.

  • Sometimes that requires a little bit of tough love.

  • Now, are you ready for the tough love?

  • Now we give you tough love.

  • I had this problem with my brother, and honestly, tough love is what needs to happen.

    Blog text (7)
  • When your children disobey, you must give them tough love.

  • Maybe he needed a little tough love to let go of his imaginary friend.

  • My parents are all about tough love since I bombed out of Penn State.

    Fiction book (2002)

Antonyms

235 1.0

Kind and not strong in action, sound, or touch

32 4.4

Not strict about rules and punishment

Surface Forms

tough love singular
tough loves plural

Morphology

tough + love

The meaning 'a stern but caring approach' is directly inferable from combining 'tough' (stern/strict) with 'love' (care/affection): the noun denotes love expressed in a tough way. This is a compositional, adjective+noun pattern with cross-linguistic parallels, so a B1 learner who knows both constituents would most likely understand the intended sense.

Etymology

The noun tough love comes from a simple picture: the tough actions are a kind of love, like a parent or coach who says 'no' or gives hard tasks to teach someone a lesson. So, it means 'strict but caring' action meant to help someone improve.