to take one day at a time
- idiom
- Informal
- When facing tough times, it's important to take one day at a time to avoid feeling overwhelmed.
Examples
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To manage expectations and decrease frustration, some participants tried to take one day at a time.
Academic text (2010) -
Just take one day at a time.
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You just have to take one day at a time.
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So I say you gotta take one day at a time, you know?
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She said, "We're just taking one day at a time."
Blog text (12) -
Strategies to adjust their expectations included reappraising personal abilities, taking one day at a time, and accepting help.
Academic text (2010) -
Former carers revealed that they struggled to cope after the death of the patient and spoke about taking one day at a time to cope with their situation.
Academic text (2010) -
Participants who were able to come to terms with and adapt to their new capacity used strategies such as accepting help and taking one day at a time, adjusting their personal expectations.
Academic text (2010) -
After losing his job, he decided to take one day at a time and focus on finding new opportunities gradually.
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She reminded herself to take one day at a time during her recovery from surgery.
Synonyms
Accept what happens calmly and do not worry
Deal with problems one at a time as they happen
Antonyms
How Calm
Surface Forms
Morphology
take + one + day + at + a + time
The literal parts ('take', 'one', 'day', 'at', 'a', 'time') combine to suggest handling things in single-day units, so a B1 learner who knows the words can infer the general idea of dealing with problems day by day. However, the phrase functions as a conventionalized, metaphorical piece of advice (rather than a purely compositional instruction) and the pragmatic nuance ('manage stress by focusing on today') may not be fully predictable without exposure or context.
Etymology
Take one day at a time may come from the picture of a traveller on a long road who keeps going by taking each day as a single step and resting at night. So, it now means 'to deal with problems by focusing on today and not worrying about the future'.