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to take a joke

to take a joke

19 3.3
To not be upset when someone makes a joke about you
  • idiom
  • Informal
: tomarse una broma
  • When she left, Jody smiled at me and was glad I could take a joke.
  • learn how to take a joke
  • take a joke anymore
  • knows how to take a joke

And she's going to think, OK, he can't take a joke, right?

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Examples

  • Anyone who takes a joke seriously is obviously just uptight (in their eyes).

    Blog text (10)
  • Come on, you guys at Duke can take a joke, right?

    Blog text (27)
  • You know like-- you take a joke like this, you know.

  • Thought they could take a joke.

  • Learn how to take a joke.

  • I can take a joke.

  • "No one in this family can take a joke but me."

    Fiction book (2000)
  • Come on, you can't take a joke?

  • Can't you take a joke?

  • It's important to have a sense of humor and to take a joke from friends.

Synonyms

to laugh off
vsto take a joke
  • Informal
21 4.2

Treat a problem or criticism as not important by joking about it

accepts remarks without feeling hurt or upset
to laugh it off
vsto take a joke
  • Informal
10 4.2

To make a joke about something embarrassing to show it is not important

does not get offended when someone makes a joke about them
to laugh away
vsto take a joke
2 4.6

To make a problem seem unimportant by joking about it

stays unoffended when others joke about them

Antonyms

229 2.3

Feeling hurt because someone said or did something rude

How Offended

furious
206 3.0
offended
229 2.3
to take a joke
  • Informal
19 3.3
to laugh it off
  • Informal
10 4.2

Surface Forms

take a joke infinitive
taking a joke present participle
takes a joke third person singular
taken a joke past participle

Morphology

take + a + joke

The meaning is compositionally built from 'take' (accept/tolerate) + 'joke' (a humorous remark), so a learner who knows those words can readily infer that it means to tolerate or not be offended by a joke. Cross-linguistically similar constructions (e.g. Spanish tomárselo a broma) and the ordinary sense of 'take' as 'accept' make this immediately comprehensible to B1 learners.

Etymology

Take a joke comes from the simple image of someone taking a joke and smiling when they hear it instead of getting angry, so it means 'to not be offended' when someone teases you.