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tactfully

tactfully

4 4.4
In a careful, kind way when talking to avoid hurting someone's feelings
  • adverb
  • /ˈtæktfəl/
translation icon : con tacto
  • As soon as foul play is suspected, the instructor must indirectly and tactfully clear up the situation.

Examples

  • In response, the columnist first tactfully acknowledged the demanding and hectic lives that today's parents lead.

    Academic text (2010)
  • "I asked her tactfully, not wanting to offend her, why he had gone to another kibbutz."

    Fiction book (1993)
  • I suppose this is the place where i should tactfully change the subject.

  • And learning how to tactfully talk to him in those moments is going to go a long, long way.

  • There is a way of dealing tactfully with the government and the military.

    Academic text (1999)
  • Had to proceed tactfully, of course.

  • The article tactfully failed to mention the word "suicide," making do with "unfortunate accident."

    Fiction book (1998)
  • The counselor tactfully reminds the student that the parent will need to approve any change in the plan.

    Academic text (2005)
  • During the meeting, she tactfully suggested an alternative approach that made everyone feel respected.

  • He tactfully navigated the sensitive topic, making sure not to hurt anyone's feelings.

Synonyms

gently
vstactfully
372 1.0

To do something with little force to avoid hurting or making noise

applies softness as part of purposeful social skill to avoid offence
politely
vstactfully
108 1.0

In a way that shows respect for other people

combines those manners with sensitivity and skill in tricky encounters
respectfully
vstactfully
101 2.3

In a polite way to someone

applies respectful tone specifically to avoid causing offence in sensitive contexts
delicately
vstactfully
44 3.7

Gently and carefully to avoid hurting people or breaking things

emphasizes social skill and intention when avoiding offence, not only gentleness
graciously
vstactfully
41 3.9

In a kind and polite way that shows respect

uses that kindness as part of deliberate handling of delicate issues
diplomatically
vstactfully
26 5.5

In a way that avoids upsetting people when you talk to them

uses skill and sensitivity in difficult situations to avoid offending others
civilly
vstactfully
12 4.2

In a polite and respectful way

adds careful social skill to simple courteous behaviour in tense situations
judiciously
vstactfully
7 6.5

In a careful, thoughtful way that makes good choices

focuses more on social sensitivity and avoiding offence than pure judgment
with kid gloves
vstactfully
  • Informal
6 7.3

To treat someone very carefully so you do not upset them

applies careful social skill in hard situations rather than only gentleness
sensitively
vstactfully
5 4.2

In a way that shows care for other people's feelings and needs

adds deliberate social skill to sensitive responses in difficult cases
courteously
vstactfully
4 2.8

In a polite and respectful way

pairs politeness with deliberate sensitivity to manage difficult situations
considerately
vstactfully
1 3.0

In a way that shows care for other people's feelings and needs

combines that concern with skilled handling of delicate situations
circumspectly
vstactfully
  • Formal
1 8.3

To act carefully after thinking about possible problems and results

focuses instead on interpersonal sensitivity and skill, not only caution
inoffensively
vstactfully
4.4

In a way that does not upset or hurt people

adds active skill and sensitivity for difficult encounters beyond mere non-offense

Antonyms

In a way that shows no care for other people's feelings

How Tactful

tactfully
4 4.4
discreetly
33 5.1
politely
108 1.0

Surface Forms

tactfully positive

Morphology

tactfully = tactful (transparent) = tact + ful + ly

The adverb is formed regularly from the adjective 'tactful' with -ly, and 'tactful' itself is transparently built on 'tact' + -ful.

Etymology

Tactfully comes from tact, from Latin tactus meaning 'touch'. Think of it as having a light 'touch' in how you speak — the same idea you see in the word contact. So to act tactfully is to handle people and problems gently so you do not offend.