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stiff upper lip

stiff upper lip

9 7.7
Ability to stay calm and not show feelings in hard times
  • idiom
translation icon : mantener la compostura
  • During the funeral, he maintained a stiff upper lip despite his deep sorrow.
  • keep a stiff upper lip
  • maintain a stiff upper lip

This is the Winston Churchill stiff upper lip.

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Examples

  • In a remarkable example of stiff upper lip in the face of adversity, FitzRoy put the best possible spin on a personal disaster.

    Academic text (1991)
  • You, with your cheerfulness, your stiff upper lip, your valiant smile in the face of adversity.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • Be happy, and keep a stiff upper lip.

  • Now, now, my dear, keep a stiff upper lip.

  • So you just sit tight and keep a stiff upper lip.

  • Keep a stiff upper lip, old boy.

  • - My father just kept a stiff upper lip and continued his craft.

  • Stiff upper lip and all that.

    Fiction book (2001)
  • She believed in appearances, in the stiff upper lip, at least in public.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • The Wellbrights have always prided themselves on their stiff upper lip.

    Fiction book (1999)

Synonyms

poker face
vsstiff upper lip
  • Informal
12 4.8

A face that shows no feeling so others cannot tell what you feel

stays calm by not showing fear or grief not only hiding face
reserve
vsstiff upper lip
9 5.2

A quiet way of acting that shows little emotion

focuses on staying calm in hard times rather than general social restraint
aplomb
vsstiff upper lip
8 8.2

Confidence and calm when you are under pressure

shows calm without necessarily implying confidence or assurance
unflappability
vsstiff upper lip
1 7.9

Staying calm and composed in difficult or stressful situations

stays calm but emphasizes not showing fear or grief
guardedness
vsstiff upper lip
1 6.9

A way of being careful and reserved about sharing personal thoughts or feelings

centers on calm control in difficulty rather than protecting private information
unemotionality
vsstiff upper lip
8.3

A state of showing little or no feeling

is specific to difficult situations and to not displaying fear or grief

Antonyms

111 3.9

To lose control of your feelings and cry or collapse

Show your feelings with words, actions, or your face

How Calm

stoicism
5 7.8
stiff upper lip
9 7.7
composure
38 5.1
nervousness
36 2.7

Surface Forms

Morphology

stiff + upper + lip

Although the words 'stiff' (rigid), 'upper' (higher) and 'lip' (edge of the mouth) have clear literal meanings, those constituents do not transparently combine to yield the abstract sense of remaining calm and not showing emotion. This phrase is a culturally specific idiom (particularly British) whose figurative meaning is not directly predictable from the parts, so a B1 learner who knows the individual words would likely not infer its meaning without prior exposure.

Etymology

The idiom stiff upper lip comes from a simple image: people keeping their upper lip stiff and still so they do not show their feelings. One popular story says this idea grew in Britain, where soldiers and important people tried to look steady in hard times. That's why stiff upper lip means 'to remain calm and not show emotions'.