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to stand by one's man

to stand by one's man

5 6.8
Support and stay loyal to your husband or partner during hard times
  • idiom
translation icon : apoyar a su hombre
  • As much as she's listening to Tyler—and I think that she wholeheartedly trusts Tyler—the bottom line is that she's going to be around him and stand by her man.
  • wife vowed to stand by her man

Examples

  • I mean, if Hayley's going to be standing by her man, Caroline is going to be standing even closer.

    Blog text (34)
  • Stand by your man!

  • Way to stand by your man, Cash.

  • As an attorney and wife, she is clearly standing by her man.

  • A woman stands by her man.

    Blog text (19)
  • I'm just asking you to stand by your man like I'm standing next to you.

  • No one will ever say I didn't stand by my man, Charlie.

  • Stand by your man, Lauren.

  • "You've got to stand by your man!" Ramon declared.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • Despite the challenges they faced, she vowed to stand by her man through thick and thin.

Synonyms

to stand by
vsto stand by one's man
187 3.2

Support someone through difficult times

focuses on supporting a spouse or partner specifically in hard times
to stand with
vsto stand by one's man
84 2.9

Support a person, group, or cause during hard times

focuses on loyalty to a spouse or partner rather than groups or causes
to stick by
vsto stand by one's man
  • Informal
47 3.6

To stay with and support someone in hard times

is limited to supporting a spouse or partner specifically

Antonyms

773 3.1

Leave someone or something behind permanently and without care

to betray
  • NSFW
76 4.6

Have sex with someone who is not your partner

How Loyal

to stand by one's man
5 6.8
to stick with
341 3.6
to defend
691 2.8
to support
1.0

Surface Forms

stand by one's man infinitive
standing by one's man present participle
stands by one's man third person singular
stood by one's man past participle

Morphology

stand + by + one's + man

The verb + particle 'stand by' transparently conveys holding/supporting someone, and 'one's man' is a straightforward possessive phrase meaning one's male partner, so the combined meaning 'support one's husband/partner' is directly inferable from the parts. This compositional pattern (stand by someone = support) is common in English and has clear parallels in many languages, so a B1 learner who knows the constituent words would very likely understand the MWE.

Etymology

Stand by one's man comes from the simple image of someone who literally stands by their man when he is in trouble, staying at his side. So it means 'to support or remain loyal to one's husband or partner', especially in hard times.