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to stick by

to stick by

47 3.6
To stay with and support someone in hard times
  • phrasal verb
  • /stɪk baɪ/
  • Informal
translation icon : apoyar a
  • I'm proud that you stuck by your beliefs and refused to do the appearance.
  • stick by a friend
  • stick by your family
  • stick by someone's side

But but but, but very few people stuck by me.

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Examples

  • Well, do you know what they call someone who sticks by their word no matter what?

  • Now, I think the last few weeks have demonstrated what I've been saying all year, that this government will be tested by events, but we will stick by our course.

  • I stuck by you and I stuck by my family.

  • You said that you were gonna stick by me no matter what happened.

  • ...I need you to do me a favor and stick by my side.

  • But if I could talk to her, make her see that I'm gonna stick by her through this...

  • We are taught that loyalty means sticking by someone no matter what, right?

  • And they just, they stuck by me and I was so I'm, I'm so grateful for that.

  • Don't get panicky, just stick by me.

  • I will always stick by my friends during tough times.

Synonyms

to stick with
vsto stick by
341 3.6

Keep doing or supporting something even when it is difficult

emphasizes being loyal and supportive rather than just continuing an action
to stand by
vsto stick by
187 3.2

Support someone through difficult times

is the neutral, widely used phrase for that action
to stand with
vsto stick by
84 2.9

Support a person, group, or cause during hard times

implies personal loyalty and continued support rather than public alignment
to cleave
vsto stick by
  • Literature
7 7.5

To stay very close to someone or something, often for support

is more about general loyalty than intense closeness
to stand by one's man
vsto stick by
5 6.8

Support and stay loyal to your husband or partner during hard times

applies to loyalty to anyone or something, not only a spouse or partner
8.5

Stay loyal to people or groups that supported you

means general loyalty, not specifically returning loyalty to former supporters

Antonyms

773 3.1

Leave someone or something behind permanently and without care

397 4.2

Let someone down when they need you

How Loyal

to stick by
  • Informal
47 3.6
to back
932 1.0

Surface Forms

stick by infinitive
sticking by present participle
sticks by third person singular
stuck by past
stuck by past participle

Morphology

stick + by

The verb 'stick' already carries the sense of staying with or persisting in support, and 'by' conveys proximity/alongside; combined they straightforwardly yield 'remain at someone's side/support'. This verb+preposition composition is common in English (cf. 'stand by', 'stick with') and is cross-linguistically familiar, so a B1 learner who knows the constituents can reliably infer the meaning.

Etymology

Stick by comes from the image of someone being stuck to another person's side, with stick meaning to stay attached and by meaning near. So it means 'to continue to support or be loyal'.