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sob story

sob story

16 4.9
A story often exaggerated that tries to make people feel sorry for personal problems
  • noun
  • /sɑb ˈstɔri/
  • Informal
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  • No one is buying his sob story; he is a failure, and his record shows this.
  • tell a sob story
  • hear my sob story
  • give a sob story

So laughter, singing, dancing, eating socially together, feasting, telling emotional sob stories.

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Examples

  • Don't play the sob story game with me, okay, Doug?

  • Spare us the sob story and tell us the truth.

  • You do not want to start the whole sob story game.

  • Even the sob story about your dad?

  • You want to hear my sob story?

  • Everyone's got their sob story, right?

  • My intention tonight isn't to complain or share a sob story.

    Blog text (5)
  • Their legislators posted daily sob stories on the congressional video monitors.

    Fiction book (2000)
  • Someone had accosted her in the subway station with a sob story and asked to be swiped through.

    Blog text (13)
  • Before I make my case, let me share my sob story about losing my job and struggling to pay bills.

Synonyms

tearjerker
vssob story
  • Informal
5 4.2

A sad film or book that makes people cry

is usually a personal possibly exaggerated account aimed at sympathy
sob stuff
vssob story
  • Archaic
8.5

Words or stories meant to make people feel pity by showing personal suffering

is a single personal account often exaggerated to gain sympathy

Antonyms

56 3.0

A story about a person or group who reaches a big goal and inspires others

How Sentimental

tearjerker
  • Informal
5 4.2
sob story
  • Informal
16 4.9
moving
7 3.3

Surface Forms

sob story singular
sob stories plural

Morphology

sob + story

The basic idea — a 'story' involving 'sob' (crying) — is directly inferable, so learners can guess it refers to a tale about distress that elicits sympathy. However, the pragmatic sense that such a tale is often exaggerated or manipulative is an idiomatic extension that a B1 learner who has not seen the phrase may not fully predict, so it is not fully transparent.

Etymology

Sob story The phrase sob story comes from the image of someone crying, a sob, while telling a sad story to make people feel sorry. So, a sob story means 'a story told to get sympathy, often exaggerated'.