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to put up someone's back

to put up someone's back

8.9
To annoy someone so they become defensive
  • phrasal verb
  • UK
translation icon : irritar
  • His constant criticism really puts up my back during meetings.

Examples

  • The way he always critiques my work tends to put up my back.

  • Try not to put up her back with unnecessary comments.

  • He didn't mean to put up your back, but his joke was misunderstood.

  • Don't put up my back!

  • He always puts up her back with his jokes.

  • His constant interruptions really put up my back during the discussion.

  • Be careful not to put up her back by bringing up sensitive topics.

Synonyms

to annoy
vsto put up someone's back
246 1.0

Make someone slightly angry or bothered by small repeated actions

is the broader sense that also covers stronger provocation or defensiveness
to tease
vsto put up someone's back
245 1.9

To make fun of someone in a way that annoys them

is the neutral act of making someone annoyed or defensive
to pick
vsto put up someone's back
165 4.8

To start a fight or argument by annoying someone

is the general act of causing annoyance or making someone defensive
to provoke
vsto put up someone's back
144 3.6

Annoy someone again and again to make them react

is the general idea of causing annoyance or a defensive reaction
to taunt
vsto put up someone's back
  • Offensive
93 5.8

To mock someone again and again to make them angry or upset

is broader, covering any action that causes annoyance or defensiveness
to give someone a hard time
vsto put up someone's back
  • Informal
90 3.9

Make someone feel bad by criticizing or teasing them

is narrower, focusing simply on causing annoyance or a defensive feeling
to stir up
vsto put up someone's back
48 4.8

To make people feel strong emotions like anger or fear

is narrower, focusing specifically on making someone annoyed or defensive
to put out
vsto put up someone's back
43 5.8

Cause someone trouble by making things difficult for them

is more about provoking annoyance or a defensive emotional response
to antagonize
vsto put up someone's back
  • US
31 7.6

To make someone angry or unfriendly

is the general action of causing annoyance or a defensive reaction
to get under one's skin
vsto put up someone's back
  • Informal
25 7.2

To annoy someone again and again so they feel bothered

is the general act of making someone annoyed or defensive
to get a rise out of
vsto put up someone's back
  • Informal
8 6.8

Make someone angry or annoyed on purpose by teasing them

is the wider action of causing annoyance without insisting on provocation
to get on someone's nerves
vsto put up someone's back
  • Informal
7 4.9

To bother someone again and again until they feel angry

is the simpler act of making someone annoyed or defensive
to get under someone's skin
vsto put up someone's back
  • Informal
4 7.4

To annoy someone a lot by small things another person does

is the general act of making someone annoyed or defensive
to pique
vsto put up someone's back
2 8.2

To offend someone and make them feel annoyed or hurt

is the simpler act of making someone annoyed or defensive
to push someone's buttons
vsto put up someone's back
  • Informal
1 7.1

To do or say something on purpose to annoy someone

is broader, meaning simply to cause annoyance or a defensive response
to raise hackles
vsto put up someone's back
1 7.9

To make someone angry or upset

is the broader act of making someone annoyed or defensive
to get one's dander up
vsto put up someone's back
  • Informal
1 9.1

To make someone angry

is the wider act of causing annoyance or a defensive response
to give someone the shits
vsto put up someone's back
  • Offensive
1 9.9

To make someone very annoyed or angry

is the general act that may be milder or more neutral in tone
to get someone's back up
vsto put up someone's back
  • UK
1 7.9

To annoy someone or make them feel defensive

is the general act of causing annoyance or a defensive reaction
to yank someone's chain
vsto put up someone's back
  • Informal
1 8.7

Tease someone to make them react

is more general, meaning to cause annoyance or defensiveness not only for fun
to do someone's head in
vsto put up someone's back
  • UK
1 9.8

To make someone feel very annoyed or upset

is the broader idea of causing annoyance or a defensive reaction
to put someone's back up
vsto put up someone's back
  • UK
7.7

To make someone angry or ready to argue

is the general act of causing annoyance or a defensive reaction
to get someone's goat
vsto put up someone's back
  • Informal
8.4

To annoy someone or make them angry

is the broader notion of causing annoyance or a defensive reaction
to get on someone's wick
vsto put up someone's back
  • UK
9.9

To annoy someone by doing the same small things again and again

is the general act of causing annoyance or a defensive reaction
to break someone's chops
vsto put up someone's back
  • Archaic
8.7

To tease or nag someone in a way that annoys them

is the broader action of causing annoyance or defensive feeling

Antonyms

962 1.0

Make a person or animal less upset

How Annoyed

to infuriate
46 5.0
to put up someone's back
  • UK
8.9
to provoke
144 3.6
to annoy
246 1.0

Surface Forms

put up someone's back past participle
putting up someone's back present participle
puts up someone's back third person singular

Morphology

put + up + someone's + back

The meaning 'to make someone annoyed or defensive' is not the straightforward compositional result of 'put' + 'up' + 'back' and the phrase is idiomatic in usage (normally phrased 'put someone's back up'). There is a metaphorical link—'get one's back up' meaning become defensive—so learners might partially infer the sense, but the specific idiomatic use is not fully predictable without exposure.

Etymology

Put up someone's back comes from the image of animals, like cats, that raise their fur and arch their back when they feel threatened. That's why to put up someone's back means 'to make someone annoyed or defensive'.