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to play the whiner

to play the whiner

8.7
Act like a person who complains a lot to get sympathy
  • idiom
  • Offensive
translation icon : hacerse el quejica
  • Whenever the meeting doesn't go his way, he always plays the whiner instead of offering solutions.

Examples

  • When faced with challenges, he often plays the whiner to gain the sympathy of his friends.

  • She tried not to play the whiner, but the long hours really wore her down.

  • It's hard to respect someone who constantly plays the whiner at work.

  • Don't play the whiner!

  • Stop playing the whiner!

  • It's difficult to support someone who always plays the whiner instead of taking action.

  • She tends to play the whiner during group projects, avoiding her share of the work.

Synonyms

to whine
vsto play the whiner
  • Informal
211 2.8

To complain in a high, annoying voice

usually aims to win sympathy or shift blame rather than vent
to bitch and moan
vsto play the whiner
  • NSFW
8 9.6

To complain a lot in an annoying way

is similar though sometimes aims to avoid responsibility or gain pity
to whinge
vsto play the whiner
  • UK
5 8.1

To complain in an annoying way about small things

is used when complaints try to gain sympathy or shirk duties
to piss and moan
vsto play the whiner
  • Offensive
4 9.9

To complain a lot about small things and annoy others

is similar but often with deliberate pleas for sympathy or excuse
to play the victim card
vsto play the whiner
  • Offensive
1 8.5

To pretend to be treated unfairly to get sympathy or avoid blame

is similar but deliberately seeks sympathy to escape responsibility
to grouch
vsto play the whiner
1 6.4

To complain in a bad-tempered way

tends to be less manipulative but can still seek sympathy to avoid blame
to cry a river
vsto play the whiner
  • Informal
1 8.7

Complain a lot in a dramatic way about something that upsets you

focuses instead on acting hurt to attract help or avoid fault
to snivel over
vsto play the whiner
  • Informal
8.6

To complain in a sad, self-pitying way about small problems

is more deliberately manipulative aiming to dodge blame or duties
to grizzle
vsto play the whiner
  • UK
8.2

To complain in a sulky, childish way about small things

is more strategic in seeking sympathy to escape responsibility

Antonyms

To admit you caused a problem and accept the blame

How Whiny

to play the whiner
  • Offensive
8.7
to whine
  • Informal
211 2.8
to complain
1.0
to grumble
41 3.7

Surface Forms

play the whiner infinitive
played the whiner past participle
playing the whiner present participle
plays the whiner third person singular

Morphology

play + the + whiner

The meaning is directly derivable from 'play' (to act or feign) plus 'whiner' (someone who complains), with 'the' forming the role noun phrase 'the whiner'. The pattern 'play the X' = 'act as X' is a common, compositional construction and would be understandable to a B1 learner who knows the constituent words.

Etymology

Play the whiner comes from the image of a person pretending to play the part of a whiner, like an actor acting a sad role to get attention. That's why it means to behave like someone who always complains to 'get sympathy' or 'avoid responsibility'.