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to piss and moan

to piss and moan

4 9.9
To complain a lot about small things and annoy others
  • phrasal verb
  • /pɪs ənd moʊn/
  • Offensive
translation icon : quejarse continuamente
  • All you do is piss and moan about trivial problems.
  • stop pissing and moaning

Examples

  • He's pissing and moaning about the heat.

  • Finally, you can piss and moan about how things are, or you can get off your asses and do something.

    Blog text (5)
  • Yeah, I agree because again, Internet, you will disagree, you will piss and moan in the comments all day.

  • In the meantime, all you do is piss and moan and add nothing to the discussion.

    Blog text (33)
  • Jesus, I trade some old piece of crap for a valuable hunting dog, and all you can do is piss and moan.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • Now kindly stop pissing and moaning and let the boy get through this on his own.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • Geez, we got one good thing going for us, and you still got to find something to piss and moan about.

    Blog text (22)
  • We can piss and moan about hypocrisy and Democratic misdealings all day.

    Blog text (31)
  • The non-producers piss and moan that wealth distribution is inequitable.

    Blog text (2)
  • They think they'll write the great American novel... but all they're really gonna do is piss and moan... and write lousy leads about high school football games.

Synonyms

to bitch
vsto piss and moan
  • NSFW
311 8.1

To complain a lot in an annoying way

is similar but often sounds more like repeated petty complaining
to whine
vsto piss and moan
  • Informal
211 2.8

To complain in a high, annoying voice

is similar but usually refers to ongoing irritating repeated complaints
to grumble
vsto piss and moan
41 3.7

To complain quietly in a low voice

is similar but emphasises annoying persistence rather than soft muttering
to gripe
vsto piss and moan
  • Informal
38 5.6

To complain repeatedly about small things

is similar but highlights a more annoying tiresome tone
to harp on
vsto piss and moan
  • Informal
23 6.7

Talk again and again about the same thing and annoy people

is similar but covers general repeated petty complaints across topics
to rant and rave
vsto piss and moan
  • Informal
9 6.9

Shout angrily and complain for a long time

focuses on repeated petty annoying complaining rather than angry prolonged shouting
to bitch and moan
vsto piss and moan
  • NSFW
8 9.6

To complain a lot in an annoying way

is the same persistent annoying complaint but uses a different crude verb
to grouse
vsto piss and moan
  • UK
8 7.4

To complain about small unimportant things

is more about repeated irritating complaining rather than occasional remarks
to squawk
vsto piss and moan
  • Informal
7 6.0

To complain loudly in a way that annoys other people

is more often low persistent annoying complaining rather than loud anger
to grumble about
vsto piss and moan
6 4.1

To complain quietly about something you do not like

is about repeated annoying complaining rather than quiet muttered remarks
to whinge
vsto piss and moan
  • UK
5 8.1

To complain in an annoying way about small things

matches this but stresses ongoing repeated irritating complaints
to kvetch
vsto piss and moan
  • Informal
4 9.9

To complain often about small things

focuses more on repeated annoying complaining rather than single complaints
to raise a stink
vsto piss and moan
2 7.4

To complain loudly and make people notice the problem

is more about steady petty complaining rather than loud protest or action
to groan at
vsto piss and moan
1 4.1

Make a low sound or complain to show you are annoyed at something

is more about ongoing verbal complaining than a single low reaction
to bellyache
vsto piss and moan
  • Informal
1 6.8

To complain a lot in an annoying way

is more about steady trivial complaining rather than exaggerated distress
to crab
vsto piss and moan
  • Informal
1 7.3

To complain in a small, repeated way

focuses more on repeated annoying complaining about trivial matters
to cry a river
vsto piss and moan
  • Informal
1 8.7

Complain a lot in a dramatic way about something that upsets you

is about repeated petty annoying complaining rather than dramatic sorrow
to grizzle
vsto piss and moan
  • UK
8.2

To complain in a sulky, childish way about small things

is like that but applies to adult persistent annoying complaining
to gruntled
vsto piss and moan
  • Archaic
9.9

To complain quietly because you are unhappy

is more focused on repeated irritating petty complaining rather than mild grumbles
to yawp
vsto piss and moan
9.9

Make a loud, rough sound like a shout to show anger or complaint

is focused on persistent irritating complaining rather than a single noisy outcry

How Complaining

whine
  • Informal
28 3.0
to piss and moan
  • Offensive
4 9.9
to complain
1.0
to grumble
41 3.7

Surface Forms

piss and moan infinitive
pissed and moaned past participle
pissing and moaning present participle
pisses and moans third person singular

Morphology

piss + and + moan

The constituent 'moan' directly signals 'complain', so a learner who knows that word would likely infer the general idea of complaining. However, 'piss' is vulgar/slang and here functions idiomatically as an intensifier/collocational marker rather than its literal meaning, so the exact pragmatic sense (persistent, annoying whining) and register are not fully predictable.

Etymology

The idiom piss and moan likely joins the rude verb piss, meaning 'to show anger or use bad words', and moan, meaning 'to complain quietly'. Imagine someone both swearing and whining, and that strong image explains why it means 'to complain a lot'.