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1 9.3
A man who has casual sexual or romantic relationships with many women without wanting a serious relationship
  • verb
  • /fɪˈlændər/
  • NSFW
translation icon : ser infiel
  • Many dismissed his charm as just another example of a man who likes to philandering without taking anything seriously.
  • philandering husband

Examples

  • Fathers telling daughters to remain virgins, husbands telling wives to remain chaste, all the while philandering around town.

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  • And then he kind of philandered around for, like, 7 years.

  • I never philander around missions... and I don't philander around hospitals either.

  • You lost Herb because he was a philandering jerk, you didn't know when to give into him.

  • He could not shuffle around the fact that alcoholism and philandering had defiled him.

  • He has a reputation for philandering, which has caused problems in his relationships.

  • After years of philandering, he finally decided to settle down and commit to one partner.

Synonyms

to play the field
vsto philander
  • Informal
13 7.7

Date several different people without wanting a serious relationship

is focused more on casual sexual or romantic encounters than simple dating
sleeping around
vsto philander
  • NSFW
9 9.1

Having sex with many different people without a steady partner

is specific to a man targeting several women without commitment
to womanize
vsto philander
  • NSFW
5 8.4

To have sex with many different women without a serious relationship

is used for casual relationships without the habitual sense
to tomcat
vsto philander
  • NSFW
1 9.9

Flirt a lot to try to have many sexual partners

is similar but emphasizes action toward women rather than general flirtation
to bedhop
vsto philander
  • NSFW
9.9

To have sex with many different people, often casually

is framed as male behaviour toward women rather than general casual sex

Antonyms

706 3.4

To give time, money, or effort to something

How Committed

to philander
  • NSFW
1 9.3
to play the field
  • Informal
13 7.7

Surface Forms

philander infinitive
philandered past participle
philandering present participle
philanders third person singular

Etymology

Philander comes from Greek parts phil- meaning 'love' and -ander meaning 'man' (you can see the same -ander in the name Alexander). So think of a man who 'loves' freely, and today philander means a man who has casual romantic or sexual relationships with several women without serious intentions.