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pain in the ass

pain in the ass

109 9.2
A person or thing that is very annoying and difficult to deal with
  • idiom
  • /peɪn ɪn ði æs/
  • Offensive
translation icon : coñazo (vulgar, España)
  • I find his constant questions to be a real pain in the ass during meetings.
  • a real pain in the ass
  • a royal pain in the ass
  • kids are a pain in the ass

And growing up, my dad thought I was sort of a pain in the ass.

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Examples

Synonyms

pain
vspain in the ass
  • Informal
418 3.0

Something that causes annoyance or trouble

is more informal and focused on annoyance rather than general trouble
nuisance
vspain in the ass
62 3.6

A person or thing that annoys others and causes trouble

is stronger and more rude when describing the same problem
thorn
vspain in the ass
  • Informal
43 7.2

A person or thing that often causes trouble

is the general blunt term for any very annoying person or thing
bother
vspain in the ass
29 2.1

A thing that causes trouble or annoyance

is the colloquial insult often used instead of this neutral term
pest
vspain in the ass
  • Offensive
27 2.1

A person who keeps bothering others

is the informal insult form used to call someone very annoying
annoyance
vspain in the ass
21 3.2

A person or thing that bothers you

is the slang, more forceful way to label that same irritation
pet peeve
vspain in the ass
  • Informal
19 6.3

Something small that annoys you more than it annoys most people

is the general, widely used insult for something very annoying to many
irritant
vspain in the ass
15 6.0

Something that causes discomfort or annoyance, like dust and some cleaners

is the slang, insulting way to describe that same irritating factor
asshat
vspain in the ass
  • Offensive
11 9.9

A person who behaves in an annoying, rude, or foolish way

is the broader informal phrase focusing on annoyance rather than foolishness
pain in the neck
vspain in the ass
  • Informal
11 4.1

A person or thing that is annoying and causes trouble

is the harsher, more vulgar way to name the same annoyance
royal pain
vspain in the ass
  • Offensive
8 8.0

A very annoying person or thing that causes trouble

is similar but often used more casually and directly
horse's ass
vspain in the ass
  • Offensive
7 9.9

A rude or foolish person who annoys other people

is a general vulgar term emphasizing annoyance without calling foolishness
bane of one's existence
vspain in the ass
4 7.8

A person or thing that causes a lot of trouble and annoyance for someone

is less dramatic and more everyday in expressing irritation
blighter
vspain in the ass
  • Offensive
2 9.5

A person who often annoys or causes trouble

is the informal insult form used more directly and offensively
pain in the backside
vspain in the ass
  • Informal
1 7.4

Something that causes trouble or makes people annoyed

is the same idea but more blunt and coarse in tone
thorn in someone's side
vspain in the ass
  • Informal
1 6.3

A person or thing that keeps causing trouble for someone

is broader, naming any very annoying person or thing, not only repeated ones
botherer
vspain in the ass
1 6.5

A person who annoys others by repeating small actions

is the crude, more confrontational label for such a person
thorn in the flesh
vspain in the ass
  • Informal
1 7.0

Something that keeps causing you trouble or worry

is the everyday informal label without stressing recurrence
problemo
vspain in the ass
  • Slang
1 9.6

A person who causes trouble and is hard to deal with

is the more insulting, blunt label rather than the playful one
pain in the anus
vspain in the ass
  • Offensive
9.4

Someone or something that causes a lot of trouble and annoyance

is the informal vulgar label for a very annoying person or thing
a burr in someone's saddle
vspain in the ass
  • Archaic
8.6

A small problem that keeps annoying someone

is the coarser, more direct complaint about that irritation
botheration
vspain in the ass
  • Archaic
9.3

Something that causes annoyance or trouble

is the rude, slangy way to say the same annoyance
biggest buttmuncher
vspain in the ass
  • Offensive
9.9

A very annoying person who acts rudely to others

is the standard crude phrase for a very annoying person or thing

Antonyms

770 3.5

A useful quality, skill, or person that helps someone succeed

184 1.2

A thing or feeling that gives great pleasure

How Annoying

pain in the ass
  • Offensive
109 9.2
pain in the neck
  • Informal
11 4.1
pain in the backside
  • Informal
1 7.4
nuisance
62 3.6
annoyance
21 3.2

Surface Forms

Morphology

pain + in + the + ass

The components 'pain' (a nuisance) + locative 'in the ass' transparently suggest something that causes trouble or annoyance, so a learner who knows the senses of the parts can plausibly infer the overall meaning. However, the phrase is a fixed, vulgar idiom and relies on a metaphorical locative extension, so the exact pragmatic force and appropriateness are not fully predictable without prior exposure.

Etymology

The idiom pain in the ass paints a clear picture: a pain in your ass that you cannot ignore and that makes even small tasks much harder. So people use it for 'a very annoying person or thing'.