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milquetoast

milquetoast

3 9.9
A person who is very shy and does not speak up
  • noun
  • /ˈmɪlkəˌtoʊst/
  • Offensive
translation icon : blandengue
  • Ben is with a patient, Carl Anderson, a high-strung milquetoast in his late forties.
  • Casper Milquetoast

Examples

  • Despite being labeled a milquetoast, he surprised everyone with his bold decision.

  • He is often seen as a milquetoast because he rarely stands up for his opinions.

  • Don't be such a milquetoast.

  • I'll vote for a pro-impeach candidate over a milquetoast, leave-well-enough-alone politician.

    Blog text (11)
  • He had done it this time in despair because Mom had said or implied that he was a beanpole, a weakling, or a milquetoast.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • Because he'd always perceived me as a hefty Milquetoast with no personal aspirations, he trusted me implicitly.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • If the only people of worth in this community are considered to be the roughest, toughest, rootin'est, tootin'est brawlers, and everyone else is a wet milquetoast who must 'grow a spine' before they can be heard, then it’s really not much of a community, is it?

    Blog text (29)
  • Don't be a milquetoast; express your thoughts with confidence!

Synonyms

shy person
vsmilquetoast
4 2.5

A person who feels nervous around others and avoids social situations

is broader, naming quiet unassertiveness beyond social nervousness
pantywaist
vsmilquetoast
  • Offensive
4 9.9

A man or boy who seems weak and afraid to act

is used more generally for meek people without implying childishness
shrinking violet
vsmilquetoast
  • Informal
4 8.1

A shy person who avoids standing out

is about timid, meek behavior generally rather than only avoiding attention
nebbish
vsmilquetoast
  • Offensive
2 9.9

A person who is shy, quiet, and often seen by others as weak

does not necessarily carry pity or contempt, focusing on personal meekness
milksop
vsmilquetoast
  • Offensive
1 9.9

A man or boy who is not brave and does not stand up for himself

is less insulting and feels gentler in tone toward the person
mimsy
vsmilquetoast
  • Offensive
1 9.9

A person who is shy and lacks courage

is more formal and sincere, not used mainly for joking or ridicule
softcock
vsmilquetoast
  • Offensive
1 9.9

A person who is weak and afraid to act in difficult situations

is a milder term for unassertive behavior, not a strong insult
fraidy
vsmilquetoast
  • Informal
1 9.9

A person who is easily frightened

is a general label for meekness, not only about sudden fear

Antonyms

906 1.0

Has courage when facing danger, pain or fear

715 2.5

Feeling sure about yourself or what will happen

42 4.2

Showing confidence when saying what you want or think

Compounds

9.9

A very timid way of behaving that avoids risk and conflict

How Timid

coward
  • Offensive
584 2.3
milquetoast
  • Offensive
3 9.9
meek
12 4.4
shy person
4 2.5
reserved
3.7

Surface Forms

milquetoast singular
milquetoasts plural

Etymology

Milquetoast comes from a comic character called Caspar Milquetoast, and his name was a joke on the plain food 'milk toast'. Because the character was very quiet and gentle, milquetoast now means a 'timid' or 'meek' person.