to hold with the hare and run with the hounds
- idiom
- Informal
- Her attempt to hold with the hare and run with the hounds left both sides distrustful of her motives.
Examples
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He tends to hold with the hare and run with the hounds during negotiations.
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It is impossible to hold with the hare and run with the hounds during a heated political debate.
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If you try to hold with the hare and run with the hounds, you risk displeasing everyone in the end.
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Don't hold with the hare and run with the hounds!
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Her attempt to hold with the hare and run with the hounds made both parties question her integrity.
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If you hold with the hare and run with the hounds, you will find it hard to maintain trust with either side.
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In any conflict, trying to hold with the hare and run with the hounds usually leads to unfavorable outcomes.
Synonyms
To avoid choosing a side in a disagreement
To try to please two people or groups who want different things and fail to please either
- Archaic
To support two opposite sides at the same time
To be involved with two opposing groups at the same time
Antonyms
How Loyal
- Informal
- Informal
Surface Forms
Morphology
hold + with + the + hare + and + run + with + the + hound
The literal words evoke a clear image of supporting both the 'hare' (prey) and the 'hounds' (hunters), and the contrast between 'hold with' and 'run with' signals inconsistent or double-sided allegiance, so a learner who recognises the hunting imagery can infer the idea of backing opposing sides. However, the expression is a conventionalised hunting metaphor and culturally specific phrasing that many B1 learners may not know, so the meaning is not fully predictable without prior exposure.
Etymology
Hold with the hare and run with the hounds may come from a hunting scene: to hold with the hare is to be on the rabbit's side while to run with the hounds is to join the dogs chasing it. So, the phrase means 'to try to support or please two opposite sides at the same time', often in a false or selfish way.