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to hold someone's hand

to hold someone's hand

313 2.8
To comfort and guide someone who feels anxious or unsure
  • phrasal verb
  • Informal
: tomar de la mano
  • All the way to Saint Elizabeth's, she held Rose's hand.
  • said, holding Sharee's hand
  • held each other's hands and kissed
  • holding the little girl's hand

Examples

  • She would sit and hold people's hands and counsel them.

  • A young couple sat together, the man holding the woman's hand near her IV pole.

    Fiction book (2002)
  • Can I hold your hand?

  • - I'll hold your hand.

  • When you feel scared, hold someone's hand and look into their eyes.

  • Mother Green then held Viola's hand tight in hers.

    Fiction book (2002)
  • Mack reaches down and holds Lottie's hand.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • When you feel anxious about the presentation, just hold someone's hand for comfort.

  • As they prepared for the roller coaster ride, she offered to hold his hand to ease his nerves.

  • On the first day of school, many children feel scared, so teachers encourage them to hold someone's hand.

Synonyms

to clutch
vsto hold someone's hand
115 3.4

To hold something tightly with the hands or because of strong feeling

is steady comforting or guiding contact rather than sudden fearful grabbing
to grasp
vsto hold someone's hand
84 1.1

To take and hold something firmly with the hands

is supportive or comforting touch with calming intent rather than firm seizing
to cling to
vsto hold someone's hand
53 3.4

To hold tightly to someone or something because of fear, need, affection

is a gentle supportive touch to comfort or guide, not needy tight contact
to clasp
vsto hold someone's hand
39 2.6

To hold a person or thing tightly with your hands

is about offering calm support or guidance rather than tight gripping
to take someone's arm
vsto hold someone's hand
8 3.2

Hold someone's arm to help or guide them while walking

is broader support or comfort in many situations, not only during walking
to squeeze
vsto hold someone's hand
6 1.0

To hold someone tightly in your arms to show affection

is more about calm guidance or steady reassurance than affectionate pressing

Antonyms

607 3.1

Leave someone or something behind permanently and without care

94 3.5

Not caring for someone or something that needs care

How Supportive

support
∞ 1.0
to hold someone's hand
  • Informal
313 2.8
to guide
260 1.0
to stand by
424 2.6

Surface Forms

hold someone's hand infinitive
holding someone's hand present participle
holds someone's hand third person singular
held someone's hand past participle

Morphology

hold + someone's + hand

The meaning 'to support, comfort, or guide someone' is directly derivable from combining 'hold' (to take and support) with 'someone's hand' (physical contact used for guidance or reassurance). This physical-to-figurative extension is cross-linguistically common and follows a transparent compositional pattern, so a B1 learner who knows the constituent words will likely infer the intended supportive meaning from context.

Etymology

The phrase hold someone's hand comes from the simple image of a person taking another's hand to hold, guide, or comfort them. That's why it now means 'to support, comfort, or guide someone'.