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to have words (with)

to have words (with)

119 7.5
Argue angrily with someone about something
  • idiom
  • Informal
translation icon : discutir (con)
  • After the meeting, they had words over the team's performance.
  • have a few words with
  • have a couple of words with

Examples

  • I need to have words with my colleague about the project's deadline.

  • Let's have words about your behavior during the presentation.

  • "Did you by any chance have angry words with your father this morning?"

    Fiction book (1996)
  • Do you mind if I have a word with him alone for a minute?

    Fiction book (1991)
  • I'm sorry to be calling so late, but I need to have a few words with you on a very important matter.

  • Sir Robert said he would follow as soon as he had a word with Travis and Mrs. Cox.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • Mr. Tiede, may we have a word with you?

  • Capt. Baker would like to have a word with you.

  • Mr. Bliss, I'd like to have a word with you, if I may.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • – Harry, can I have a word with you outside?

Synonyms

to argue
vsto have words (with)
607 1.1

To speak angrily with someone because you disagree

is more idiomatic and often implies a heated or personal dispute
to argue over
vsto have words (with)
36 2.9

To talk with someone because you disagree about something

is a general heated discussion, not only tied to one topic
to quarrel
vsto have words (with)
35 2.6

To argue angrily with someone about small things

is about a heated discussion, not limited to minor topics
to have words
vsto have words (with)
  • Informal
11 6.9

Talk angrily to someone because of a disagreement

is the idiomatic phrase for having a heated discussion
to spar
vsto have words (with)
5 7.1

To argue in a friendly, quick way without serious anger

is a genuinely heated or angry discussion rather than playful debate
to cross swords
vsto have words (with)
  • Informal
5 6.8

Argue strongly with someone, often in public

is the everyday idiom for having a heated spoken disagreement
to have a quarrel
vsto have words (with)
2 2.8

Argue with someone and feel angry or upset afterward

is about a heated discussion, not necessarily causing long term bad feelings
to have words with
vsto have words (with)
  • Informal
1 7.2

To tell someone you are unhappy with them in an angry way

is used for a heated or extended argument rather than a brief confrontation
piece of someone's mind
vsto have words (with)
  • Informal
7.5

Tell someone angrily that you are unhappy with them

is a mutual heated discussion rather than a one way angry speech

Antonyms

89 3.4

To stop arguing and become friendly again

38 5.1

To become friendly again after a disagreement

How Angry

to quarrel
35 2.6
to have words (with)
  • Informal
119 7.5
to argue
607 1.1
debate
  • Formal
2.0
to discuss
1.6

Surface Forms

have words (with) infinitive
having words (with) present participle
has words (with) third person singular
had words (with) past participle

Morphology

have + words + (with)

The meaning is linked to the constituents — 'have' (possess/experience) plus 'words' (an exchange of speech) — so a learner can infer it involves speaking with someone. However, the specific sense of a brief angry or heated exchange is an idiomatic/pragmatic extension of 'words' that is not fully predictable from the literal meanings, so prior exposure is usually needed to know it denotes an argument.

Etymology

Have words (with) comes from the image of two people exchanging sharp words like small hits. When you have words with someone, you fight with language, so today it means 'to argue' or 'to have an argument with' someone.