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to have words

to have words

11 6.9
Talk angrily to someone because of a disagreement
  • phrasal verb
  • /hæv wɜrdz/
  • Informal
translation icon : discutir (con)
  • After the meeting, I need to have words with you about your presentation.
  • going to have words
  • just had words

So the medical doctor and the African orderly had words that changed my life.

Examples

  • I'll have words with any man who says otherwise.

  • I've already had words with at least one builder over improper removal and disposal of asbestos.

    Blog text (11)
  • - Oh, young lady, I must have words with you.

  • We had words tonight at the shop.

  • So we have words about that.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • Do you have words regarding this line of thinking?

    Blog text (30)
  • I've got to have words with her about it.

  • And I know you and me, we done had words in the past and some of them weren't too friendly.

  • If that's you again, Odd, we are going to have words!

  • Apparently one of you had words with the victim, in the motel office -when you were checkin' in?

Synonyms

to argue
vsto have words
607 1.1

To speak angrily with someone because you disagree

stresses the anger or seriousness of a discussion rather than simple disagreement
to have words (with)
vsto have words
  • Informal
119 7.5

Argue angrily with someone about something

describes a general angry or serious discussion not limited to one point
to clash
vsto have words
46 3.1

To disagree strongly with another person or group

is an angry or serious discussion that may be less forceful or public
to argue over
vsto have words
36 2.9

To talk with someone because you disagree about something

covers angry or serious discussion generally, not only subject-specific disputes
to butt heads
vsto have words
  • Informal
13 6.3

To argue strongly with each other

is a serious discussion that may be less continuous than a clash
to wrangle
vsto have words
6 6.8

To argue loudly for a long time

can be a single angry discussion rather than a prolonged noisy dispute
to lock horns
vsto have words
  • Informal
5 5.1

To argue strongly with someone about something

can be less intense or shorter than that full conflict
to spar
vsto have words
5 7.1

To argue in a friendly, quick way without serious anger

is a more angry and serious discussion rather than playful in tone
to cross swords
vsto have words
  • Informal
5 6.8

Argue strongly with someone, often in public

is any angry or serious discussion, not only sharp verbal combat
to have a quarrel
vsto have words
2 2.8

Argue with someone and feel angry or upset afterward

is an angry or serious discussion that may not cause lasting bad feelings
to have words with
vsto have words
  • Informal
1 7.2

To tell someone you are unhappy with them in an angry way

is a mutual angry or serious discussion rather than one person scolding
to altercate
vsto have words
  • Formal
9.9

To argue angrily, often for a long time or in public

is an angry or serious discussion that can be informal and brief
piece of someone's mind
vsto have words
  • Informal
7.5

Tell someone angrily that you are unhappy with them

is a two-sided angry or serious discussion rather than a one-person rebuke
to polemize
vsto have words
  • Formal
9.9

To argue strongly in public, often in writing or speech

is usually a direct angry discussion rather than formal public debate

Antonyms

1.0

Have the same opinion or say yes

38 5.1

To become friendly again after a disagreement

How Angry

to quarrel
35 2.6
to have words
  • Informal
11 6.9
to argue
607 1.1
debate
  • Formal
2.0
to discuss
1.6

Surface Forms

have words infinitive
had words past
had words past participle
having words present participle
has words third person singular

Morphology

have + words

The parts 'have' + 'words' give a basic cue that the expression involves speaking (having words), so a learner could guess it relates to a verbal exchange; however the specific sense 'argue/angrily discuss' is idiomatic and not fully predictable from the literal meanings. The confrontational nuance is therefore only partially transparent and would often require prior exposure or context for a B1 learner to infer reliably.

Etymology

The phrase have words may come from the image of two people having or exchanging words in a short, angry talk. When those words are angry, the talk becomes an argument, so the phrase now means 'to argue'.