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go-between

go-between

11 4.9
A person who passes messages and helps two people or groups agree
  • noun
  • /ˈɡoʊ bɪˌtwin/
translation icon : intermediario
  • Claremont: See, as a bail bondsman, I'm the go-between for the court and the accused.
  • serve as a go-between
  • act as a go-between

Examples

  • I was trying to be a go-between.

  • Might I offer myself as a go-between, so to speak... ...to verify Andy's dispersal of these funds?

  • I am through being a go-between for you and your dream girl.

  • After that, he started using me as a go-between on some of his deals.

  • Such leaders could act as go-betweens during a siege.

    Academic text (2007)
  • Environmental health people can act as go-betweens for various sectors of the community, such as public and private water suppliers.

    Academic text (2006)
  • I am hoping you will agree to act as a kind of go-between and avert a disaster.

  • The role of a broker is to basically be a go-between for the buyer and seller.

    Blog text (2)
  • There is something novelistic in the fact that Aino does not post her letter, but asks a go-between to deliver it.

    Academic text (1999)
  • She acted as a go-between to help resolve the conflict between the two companies.

Synonyms

negotiator
vsgo-between
171 4.6

A person who talks with others to reach an agreement

is a more general connector role, not limited to formal bargaining
liaison
vsgo-between
105 6.8

A person or thing that helps two groups share information

focuses more on direct negotiation and personal bridging between parties
mediator
vsgo-between
45 4.0

A person who helps two people or groups reach an agreement without taking sides

is broader, covering any intermediary role not only dispute settlement
intermediary
vsgo-between
35 6.8

A person or group who helps different sides agree

is the simple personal connector between two people or groups
middleman
vsgo-between
27 3.9

A person who helps others meet or agree on a deal

is not limited to commercial or transactional arranging roles
intercessor
vsgo-between
2 8.8

A person who helps two people or groups agree

is a neutral bridging role aimed at negotiation rather than personal pleading
intermediator
vsgo-between
1 7.7

A person who helps two sides talk and reach an agreement

is the standard term for that role rather than this less common form
middlewoman
vsgo-between
6.5

A woman who helps arrange deals or introductions between people

is the general intermediary role beyond specifically transactional help

How Official

negotiator
171 4.6
mediator
45 4.0
liaison
105 6.8
intermediary
35 6.8
go-between
11 4.9
middleman
27 3.9
messenger
258 2.4

Surface Forms

go-between singular
go-betweens plural

Morphology

go-between = go (transparent) = between + go

The compound is a straightforward combination of 'go' + 'between' meaning someone who goes between parties, readily inferable by learners. [Postprocessing: moved 'between' from base_words to prefix]

Etymology

Go-between comes from the simple parts go ('to move') and between ('in the middle'), so it paints the picture of a person who goes back and forth as a middleman to help two people or groups talk and agree.