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fence mending

fence mending

6.2
Improving a damaged relationship between people or groups
  • noun
  • /fɛns ˈmɛndɪŋ/
  • Literature
translation icon : reconciliación
  • Diplomats engaged in fence mending talks to ease tensions between the neighboring countries.

Examples

  • After months of disagreements, there was finally some fence mending between the two leaders.

  • After the scandal, the company engaged in fence mending with its clients.

  • The new CEO made fence mending a top priority to restore trust in the company.

  • The government is focused on fence mending after the recent tensions.

  • After months of disagreements, there was finally some fence mending between the two leaders.

  • Diplomats engaged in fence mending talks to ease tensions between the neighboring countries.

  • The new CEO made fence mending a top priority to restore trust in the company.

Synonyms

reconciliation
vsfence mending
114 5.3

A return to friendly relations after a disagreement

focuses on repairing damaged relationships especially in political or group settings
peacemaking
vsfence mending
8 3.7

Helping people or groups end a conflict and start good relations

focuses more on repairing damaged relationships rather than initiating peace processes
rapprochement
vsfence mending
  • Formal
7 9.9

Making friendly relations again between countries or groups

is the general activity for improving poor relationships beyond diplomatic cases
conciliation
vsfence mending
6 6.7

An act that brings people or groups back to peace with help from a neutral person

focuses on improving damaged relationships without implying third party mediation
thaw
vsfence mending
4 6.4

A period when two groups become less angry and more friendly

refers to the active process of improving damaged relationships rather than a passive easing
reconcilement
vsfence mending
6.5

The act of making people or groups friendly again after a disagreement

aims at improving damaged political or group relationships rather than seeking forgiveness

Antonyms

135 4.1

To be against something or not agree with it

8 7.8

A feeling of no longer being close to someone

How Reconciled

reconciliation
114 5.3
fence mending
  • Literature
6.2
talks
  • Formal
2 2.3
apology
671 1.0
hostility
147 4.7

Surface Forms

fence mending singular

Morphology

fence + mend

The verb 'mend' means to repair and 'fence' denotes a physical barrier, so 'fence mending' can be understood as repairing a barrier — a metaphor that maps reasonably onto repairing relationships. However, the social/political sense (repairing interpersonal or group relations) is a metaphorical extension and somewhat idiomatic, so a B1 learner who knows the words may only partially infer the full pragmatic meaning without prior exposure.

Etymology

The phrase fence mending comes from the image of neighbors fixing a broken fence after an argument. Because to mend means to repair, 'fence mending' now means 'working to repair a damaged relationship'.