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to feel like a total bumhole

to feel like a total bumhole

9.9
To feel very ashamed and worthless after doing something embarrassing
  • idiom
  • Offensive
translation icon : sentirse un imbécil de mierda (vulgar)
  • I feel like a total bumhole after forgetting her birthday.

Examples

  • The failed presentation made her feel like a total bumhole in front of her team.

  • He tripped over nothing at the meeting and instantly felt like a total bumhole.

  • After forgetting his girlfriend's birthday, he felt like a total bumhole for days.

  • After that embarrassing moment, he felt like a total bumhole.

  • After forgetting his girlfriend's birthday, he felt like a total bumhole for days.

  • He tripped over nothing at the meeting and instantly felt like a total bumhole.

  • The failed presentation made her feel like a total bumhole in front of her team.

Synonyms

to feel awkward
vsto feel like a total bumhole
21 2.8

Be uncomfortable or embarrassed when you are with other people

is more severe tied to deep shame and feeling extremely worthless
to feel like a fool
vsto feel like a total bumhole
9 6.0

To be embarrassed and silly because of something you did

is more intense adding feelings of worthlessness and deep humiliation
to feel dumb
vsto feel like a total bumhole
  • Informal
3 6.0

Be embarrassed and think you are foolish after making a mistake

involves deeper embarrassment and strong loss of self worth after shameful acts
to feel like a schmuck
vsto feel like a total bumhole
  • Offensive
1 9.9

To feel foolish and embarrassed about something you did

focuses on extreme worthlessness and deep shame rather than social awkwardness
to feel like a worm
vsto feel like a total bumhole
  • Offensive
9.1

To be very ashamed and think you are worthless

is felt specifically after doing something foolish or shameful
to feel like a louse
vsto feel like a total bumhole
  • Offensive
9.1

To be guilty and ashamed after treating someone badly

is about feeling worthless or deeply embarrassed after foolish action
to feel like a bum
vsto feel like a total bumhole
  • Offensive
8.6

To feel lazy and useless because you failed or did nothing

is stronger adding deep shame after a foolish or shameful act
to feel like a jackoff
vsto feel like a total bumhole
  • Offensive
9.9

To feel foolish and embarrassed after a careless mistake

is more about deep worthlessness and severe shame than mere embarrassment
to feel like a total boob
vsto feel like a total bumhole
  • Offensive
9.9

To feel foolish or embarrassed because of a mistake

carries stronger self disgust and deeper shame after shameful acts
to feel like a pinhead
vsto feel like a total bumhole
  • Offensive
9.1

To be foolish or embarrassed after making a mistake

implies stronger ongoing worthlessness and deeper shame after bad acts
to feel like a pillock
vsto feel like a total bumhole
  • Offensive
9.9

To feel foolish because of something you did

adds heavier self blame and deeper embarrassment after shameful behavior
to feel like a plonker
vsto feel like a total bumhole
  • Offensive
9.9

Being foolish and embarrassed after making an obvious mistake

signals more severe worthlessness and strong shame after improper acts
to feel like a wally
vsto feel like a total bumhole
  • Offensive
9.9

To feel foolish and embarrassed because of something you did

suggests deeper humiliation and greater personal worth loss after shameful acts
to feel like a dodo
vsto feel like a total bumhole
  • Informal
9.6

To think you are silly after making a mistake

conveys stronger shame and a sense of being deeply worthless after error
to feel like a gomer
vsto feel like a total bumhole
  • Archaic
9.9

Act or seem foolish and unable to do something in a situation

is more global adding deep worthlessness and strong shame after wrongdoing

Antonyms

Being sure you can do something well

How Ashamed

to feel like a total bumhole
  • Offensive
9.9
ashamed
504 1.0
embarrassed
145 1.1

Surface Forms

Morphology

feel + like + a + total + bumhole

The syntactic pattern 'feel like a total + N' is transparently self-evaluative, so a learner who knows 'feel', 'like' and 'total' would expect a negative self-characterisation. However, 'bumhole' is crude slang whose figurative sense as an insulting label (and the specific nuance of deep embarrassment or worthlessness) is not predictable from its literal parts, so understanding the exact meaning requires prior exposure.

Etymology

Feel like a total bumhole may come from joining bum (a lazy or useless person) and hole to make a harsher insult. So, imagining yourself as that complete insult helps explain why it means 'to feel very worthless or embarrassed'.