elephant in the room
- idiom
- /ˈɛlɪfənt ɪn ðə ruːm/
- Informal
- At the meeting, nobody wanted to bring up the elephant in the room regarding budget cuts.
Bringing us then to the elephant in the room, more cores.
- Bringing us then to the elephant in the room, more cores.
- So it's like an elephant in the room, right?
- So let me just address the elephant in the room.
- So let's just let's just talk about the elephant in the room.
- However, there is the elephant in the room.
- Fortnite and that's that's the big that's that's the elephant in the room.
- Yeah, No, it's, it's certainly the, the, the elephant in the room.
- Listen, we're all going to talk about the elephant in the room today, which is my TBR cart.
- Like I think for all of us, the big elephant in the room is do you understand yourself?
- So let's talk about the elephant in the room.
Examples
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Can we talk at all, or do we agree to walk by the elephant in the room?
Academic text (2003) -
Like I think for all of us, the big elephant in the room is do you understand yourself?
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But what about the elephant in the room, the Google Home Max?
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Are we even gonna talk about the elephant in the room?
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Could I just point out the elephant in the room?
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Let's just talk about the elephant in the room first.
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Let's talk about the elephant in the room, shall we?
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First... we need to acknowledge the elephant in the room.
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I'm gonna address the elephant in the room.
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Nobody's talking about the elephant in the room.
Synonyms
A difficult issue people try to avoid or pass to others
An obvious problem that everyone knows but avoids talking about
Antonyms
How Obvious
Surface Forms
Morphology
The idiom maps the literal image of a very large, hard-to-ignore animal occupying a space onto an obvious problem that people avoid mentioning; this metaphorical connection is motivated by the constituent meanings (elephant + in + room) rather than arbitrary. Because the relation is figurative but inferable from the vivid literal image — and many languages have similar metaphors — a B1 learner who knows the words may be able to guess the sense but not fully predict it without exposure.
Etymology
Elephant in the room paints a simple picture: imagine a very large elephant standing in a small room while everyone pretends not to see it. That's why the phrase means 'an obvious problem people avoid talking about'.