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diffidently

diffidently

1 7.9
In a shy way that shows little confidence
  • adverb
  • /ˈdɪfɪdəntli/
translation icon : tímidamente
  • He raised his hand diffidently, afraid to interrupt the teacher.
  • said diffidently
  • asked diffidently

Examples

  • Clay came to me about a week ago and asked very diffidently for a favor.

    Blog text (4)
  • " Are you ill?" he asked again diffidently from the doorway.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • "Is it your father?" my mother says diffidently.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • At last, she offered it diffidently.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • "I was just wondering?" she began diffidently.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • "What were they like?" Bob Easley asked diffidently.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • "Excuse me," Leslie said diffidently.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • I sat down near him and leaned back against a rock, watching him a little diffidently.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • "Easy enough," Jaxom replied diffidently.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • "He's really worried," Roger said diffidently into the fresh silence.

    Fiction book (2002)

Synonyms

shyly
vsdiffidently
15 1.0

Behave in a quiet, nervous way around other people

is broader, covering low confidence and not speaking up
hesitantly
vsdiffidently
14 3.2

In a slow, unsure way because of doubt

is shyness and lack of assertiveness rather than just doubt
timidly
vsdiffidently
7 3.2

Move or speak in a shy, nervous way because of low confidence

is about shyness and low confidence rather than strong fear
demurely
vsdiffidently
3 6.1

In a quiet, modest way that shows shyness

is less about politeness, more about lacking confidence to assert
bashfully
vsdiffidently
1 3.5

In a shy, embarrassed way that avoids eye contact

is more about avoiding assertiveness and low confidence
timorously
vsdiffidently
  • Formal
1 8.2

To act in a shy and scared way

is shyness and lack of assertion rather than high fear
hesitatingly
vsdiffidently
1 6.1

In a slow, unsure way that shows doubt

is caused by low confidence and shyness rather than simple indecision
unassertively
vsdiffidently
7.3

In a quiet way that shows little confidence or desire to speak up

is driven by shyness and lack of self confidence
insecurely
vsdiffidently
5.0

In a nervous way that shows little confidence

is mainly social shyness and reluctance to assert opinions
reticently
vsdiffidently
8.0

In a quiet way, not wanting to speak or give information

is shyness and low confidence rather than silence or secrecy
reservedly
vsdiffidently
7.4

In a quiet, careful way that does not show feelings or strong opinions

is driven by lack of confidence and shyness, not only formality

Antonyms

36 2.9

In a way that shows a person is sure and not afraid

How Shy

timidly
7 3.2
diffidently
1 7.9
bashfully
1 3.5
shyly
15 1.0

Surface Forms

diffidently positive

Morphology

diffidently = diffident (transparent) = diffident + ly

Standard adverbial formation from the adjective 'diffident' using '-ly', so meaning is predictable from the base.

Etymology

Diffidently comes from Latin parts dif- ('not' or 'away') and fid ('trust'), the same root behind confident and confidence. So, to speak diffidently is to show you do not trust yourself or do not feel sure, which is the opposite of being confident.