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demureness

demureness

7.7
A shy, modest way of behaving that shows being quiet and polite
  • noun
  • /dɪˈmjʊərnəs/
translation icon : modestia
  • Although she had a strong opinion, her demureness prevented her from interrupting the conversation.

Examples

  • The American medical profession is oblivious to the rise of sex-positive feminism and the decline of traditional feminine demureness.

    Blog text (3)
  • Conchita seemed, from the brief references available in the writings of her colleagues, not to have distinguished herself for demureness.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • At the formal dinner, her demureness shone through as she quietly listened and smiled politely.

  • His demureness at the party attracted attention, as he chose to observe rather than participate.

Synonyms

humility
vsdemureness
105 3.8

Being modest and not thinking you are better than other people

is more about measured public behaviour and proper decorum than inner lack of pride
modesty
vsdemureness
15 3.8

Dressing or behaving to avoid attracting attention and not show off

is more about quiet reserve and sometimes a suggestive, coy manner
humbleness
vsdemureness
3 3.5

Not thinking you are better than other people

focuses more on outward guarded behaviour and social propriety than inner stance
coyness
vsdemureness
1 7.0

A way of acting shy to seem attractive or get attention

is similar but often genuinely modest rather than using affectation to attract
primness
vsdemureness
1 7.7

Being very proper and formal in a way that feels stiff

is less rigid, combining proper behaviour with quieter, more natural reserve
bashfulness
vsdemureness
1 3.9

Being shy and easily embarrassed around other people

involves composed modesty and decorum rather than simple social embarrassment
pudency
vsdemureness
  • Formal
9.9

Shyness about showing your body or talking about sex

is broader, covering decorum and reserve beyond just bodily modesty
reservedness
vsdemureness
7.4

Quiet behaviour that does not show feelings or thoughts openly

adds an element of proper decorum and occasional coyness to that reserve
modestness
vsdemureness
3.7

Being humble and not showing pride in yourself

adds an outward formality and reserved manner beyond inner lack of pride
unassumingness
vsdemureness
7.9

Being modest and not showing off

also contains a formal, decorous tone and sometimes playful coyness

Antonyms

47 6.0

Readiness to take bold risks that may shock people or break rules

immodesty
  • NSFW
1 8.0

Showing private body parts or dressing so others find it indecent

How Reserved

prudishness
1 8.4
primness
1 7.7
reserve
9 5.2
demureness
7.7
openness
35 3.9
casualness
3 3.7

Surface Forms

demureness singular
demurenesses plural

Morphology

demureness = demure (transparent) = demure + ness

The word is transparently formed by adding the suffix '-ness' to 'demure', indicating a state or quality.

Etymology

Demureness comes from the older word demure, which once meant 'to stay back' or 'remain'. So demureness is like holding yourself back in a quiet, modest way, meaning you are reserved or modest.