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to come to blows

to come to blows

8 6.5
To start fighting physically with someone after an argument
  • phrasal verb
: llegar a las manos
  • After a long argument about the best pizza toppings, they finally came to blows in the middle of the street.
  • almost come to blows

And the distinction is not just that, you know, we haven't come to blows, but.

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Examples

  • Two fellows in the history department—nice guys, both—nearly came to blows last year over Lancaster and York.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • Nick had questioned Andy's sanity, and they came to blows.

    Fiction book (1993)
  • As a result, he almost came to blows with them.

    Academic text (2008)
  • The two had come to blows.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • Now these guys come to blows over a bit of philosophy.

  • They almost came to blows, but all eventually returned to Spain.

    Academic text (2011)
  • It's rare that a disagreement will come to blows without weeks of tension stewing before a critical moment.

    Blog text (7)
  • The competing factions regularly sabotage each other and sometimes come to blows.

    Blog text (27)
  • Before they came to blows, Tip O'Neill, then House speaker, intervened and ushered Wright away.

    Academic text (1990)
  • Tony grabs Quaid's arm, and they're about to come to blows when George defuses the situation.

    Fiction book (1990)

Synonyms

to fight
vsto come to blows
∞ 1.0

To take part in a physical or verbal struggle against someone

refers specifically to beginning a physical confrontation typically after a disagreement
to punch
vsto come to blows
455 1.4

To hit someone or something quickly with a closed fist

focuses on initiating a physical confrontation, which involves more than a single hit
to smack
vsto come to blows
164 3.5

To hit someone or something with an open hand

is about beginning a physical confrontation, not merely one open handed hit
to box
vsto come to blows
47 2.0

To fight another person using the fists, often as a sport

describes starting an unregulated physical confrontation born of disagreement, not sport
to throw down
vsto come to blows
  • Informal
18 7.0

To start a fight or bold competition to show strength

is typically the result of a verbal disagreement, not an initial provocation
to brawl
vsto come to blows
9 4.4

To fight loudly and violently in a public place

is about starting a physical confrontation after an argument, not necessarily public or large
to tussle
vsto come to blows
7 5.3

To fight roughly with another person at close range

refers to starting a physical confrontation after disagreement, not just brief contact
to scuffle
vsto come to blows
4 5.1

To fight briefly at close range by pushing or grabbing

is about starting a physical confrontation after an argument, not merely chaotic contact
to fistfight
vsto come to blows
1 4.1

To hit another person with your bare hands in a fight

is about starting a physical confrontation regardless of how people use their hands
to fly at each other
vsto come to blows
  • Informal
7.4

People suddenly fight or shout at each other with strong anger

describes starting a physical confrontation after an argument, often less sudden

Antonyms

89 3.4

To stop arguing and become friendly again

38 5.1

To become friendly again after a disagreement

How Violent

to fight
∞ 1.0
to come to blows
8 6.5
to argue
607 1.1

Surface Forms

come to blows infinitive
coming to blows present participle
comes to blows third person singular
come to blows past participle

Morphology

come + to + blow

The phrase combines 'come' (arrive/reach) + 'to' + 'blows' (strikes), so its meaning 'reach the point of strikes' — i.e. begin fighting — is directly derivable from the constituents. Cross-linguistic parallels (e.g. French venir aux mains, Spanish llegar a las manos) and the standard "come to X" construction make this interpretation accessible to a B1 learner who knows the component words.

Etymology

Come to blows creates a clear picture: after an angry argument people come forward and begin to hit each other, and blows means 'hits'. So when people come to blows today, it means they start a physical fight after a disagreement.