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to chew the fat

to chew the fat

3 7.9
Talk in a friendly, relaxed way for a long time
  • idiom
  • Informal
translation icon : charlar
  • After work, my friends and I like to chew the fat over a few beers.
  • sit around and chew the fat

Examples

  • No, no, maybe we could just sit down, chew the fat.

  • It had been a half an hour since Marty ate breakfast, so he went for a bite at Bud's, a greasy spoon where the locals gathered to chew the fat.

  • You said you wanted to catch up and chew the fat.

  • We can figure out how to make peace with them while we chew the fat and catch up on past times.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • You sit there, you read the paper, you chew the fat with the waitress.

  • We went out for a drink, sat and chewed the fat for a while, and then came home.

  • Fred could sit here alone by the hour, mull over songs, or chew the fat with writers.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • We can go back, see the guys, chew the fat, it'll be just like it always was, except this time we're going to finish this thing once and for all.

  • Let's chew the fat.

  • You know, just two colleagues chewing the fat, forming a mutual respect, planting the seeds of cooperation.

    Fiction book (2002)

Synonyms

to chat
vsto chew the fat
  • Informal
269 1.0

To talk in a friendly, informal way about small everyday things

is often longer and less limited to simple friendly remarks
to chatter
vsto chew the fat
86 2.7

To talk quickly and without stopping about unimportant things

is usually less about speed and more about sustained casual speaking
to chat about
vsto chew the fat
  • Informal
40 1.6

To talk in a friendly, casual way about a subject

is broader, often lasting longer and not limited to one subject
to converse
vsto chew the fat
29 3.3

To talk with someone in a friendly way

is generally more casual and often longer than simple informal speech
to shoot the breeze
vsto chew the fat
  • Informal
9 6.8

To chat in a relaxed informal way about unimportant things

is usually longer and more relaxed than quick small exchanges
to chitchat
vsto chew the fat
  • Informal
7 3.0

To talk in a friendly, light way about unimportant things

is more often extended and leisurely than this light social speech
to jaw
vsto chew the fat
  • Informal
6 7.7

To talk for a long time in a relaxed, often boring way

is the normal term for long relaxed speaking rather than brief remarks
to chit-chat
vsto chew the fat
  • Informal
5 4.1

To talk in a friendly, light way about unimportant things

is commonly longer and more leisurely than brief small exchanges
to natter
vsto chew the fat
  • UK
3 7.9

Talk in a friendly way about small unimportant things

is usually more lengthy and relaxed than brief friendly remarks
to shoot the bull
vsto chew the fat
  • US
2 8.1

To chat in a relaxed way about everyday things

is more about extended casual speaking rather than focused discussion
to flap one's gums
vsto chew the fat
  • Informal
2 8.7

Talk a lot about things that do not matter

is more often long and informal rather than concise or serious speech
to gab
vsto chew the fat
  • Informal
1 6.9

To talk a lot about small unimportant things

is similar but often emphasizes relaxed length rather than quick remarks
to confab
vsto chew the fat
  • Informal
1 8.5

To talk briefly and informally with someone, often in private

is usually more casual and longer rather than a purposeful discussion
to batting the breeze
vsto chew the fat
  • Informal
8.8

To talk in a relaxed way about nothing important

is usually longer, relaxed, and not goal oriented
to confabulate
vsto chew the fat
  • Informal
8.7

To chat with others about small, unimportant things

is more often longer and relaxed than brief word exchanges
to claver
vsto chew the fat
  • Archaic
9.9

To have a light friendly chat about unimportant things

is used for longer, relaxed exchanges rather than brief gossiping
to chaffer
vsto chew the fat
  • Archaic
9.9

Talk in a friendly way about small, unimportant things

is often longer and more relaxed than brief unimportant talk
to jawbone
vsto chew the fat
  • Informal
9.3

Talk in a friendly, relaxed way

is generally longer and more relaxed than quick gossip
to jaw away
vsto chew the fat
  • Informal
8.5

To talk for a long time in a casual or boring way

is presented as more general long casual speaking rather than short exchange
to gassing
vsto chew the fat
  • UK
8.1

To talk a lot about unimportant things

is more often extended casual speaking rather than brief banter
to talk someone's leg off
vsto chew the fat
  • UK
8.1

Speak with someone for a very long time until they get tired

is similar but usually less extreme and not necessarily tiring others
to jive about
vsto chew the fat
  • Informal
8.5

To talk in a lively, informal way about things like music

is more likely to be slower and more relaxed than lively exchanges
to convo
vsto chew the fat
  • Informal
8.7

To talk briefly in an informal way

is typically more extended and less brief than this short exchange
to chew the cud
vsto chew the fat
  • Informal
7.7

To talk in a relaxed way about old times

is general casual speaking often about many subjects, not just memories

How Relaxed

to shoot the breeze
  • Informal
9 6.8
to chew the fat
  • Informal
3 7.9
to chat
  • Informal
269 1.0
to converse
29 3.3
to talk
1.0

Surface Forms

chew the fat infinitive
chewed the fat past participle
chewing the fat present participle
chews the fat third person singular

Morphology

chew + the + fat

Although the words 'chew' and 'fat' are literal, their combination 'chew the fat' meaning 'chat informally' is idiomatic and not directly inferable from the constituents; the image of chewing fat does not transparently map onto casual conversation. The expression has a historical/metaphorical origin and lacks a clear cross‑linguistic parallel, so a B1 learner who knows the single words would unlikely predict the idiomatic sense.

Etymology

The idiom chew the fat may come from a simple picture: people sitting together would slowly chew bits of fat while they talked for a long time. That's why the phrase means 'to chat' for a long time.