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to call the shots

to call the shots

77 4.2
To be in control and make the important decisions
  • idiom
  • Informal
: tener la sartén por el mango
  • During the meeting, it was clear that John was the one calling the shots.
  • boss calling the shots
  • get to call the shots
  • let me call the shots

But you can only call the shots if you're there, right?

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Examples

Synonyms

to take charge
vsto call the shots
101 3.5

Start to control a group or situation and lead others

is mainly about already being in control and making decisions
to take the lead
vsto call the shots
69 3.2

To start guiding a group or activity and make the main decisions

relies more on making important decisions than only starting or initiating
to run the show
vsto call the shots
  • Informal
58 4.1

To be in charge of an activity or group

focuses on making important decisions rather than daily management
to take the wheel
vsto call the shots
25 4.7

To drive a car or have control of a situation

refers to general decision authority rather than literal or driving control
to wear the trousers
vsto call the shots
  • UK
6 7.9

To be the person who has the most control in a couple or family

applies more broadly than this family or couple specific usage
to rule the roost
vsto call the shots
  • Informal
4 6.3

To be in control of a group and make important decisions

is less domineering and more neutral about control
to hold the reins
vsto call the shots
  • Informal
3 4.9

To be in control of a group or business

emphasizes decision power rather than only guiding actions
to call the tune
vsto call the shots
  • Informal
2 7.0

To have control and make the main decisions

is the same meaning but expressed with a different idiom
to take in charge
vsto call the shots
1 5.7

To accept responsibility for and control someone or something

focuses on being in control rather than the act of accepting it

Antonyms

∞ 1.0

To act according to rules, advice, or beliefs

109 4.1

To accept another person's control, often against your wishes

How Powerful

final say
15 4.0
to run the show
  • Informal
58 4.1
to call the shots
  • Informal
77 4.2
influence
156 3.4
to have a say
57 3.1

Surface Forms

call the shots infinitive
called the shots past participle
calling the shots present participle
calls the shots third person singular

Morphology

call + the + shot

The literal senses of 'call' (to summon or announce) and 'shot' (an attempt or action) allow a plausible compositional reading — someone who 'calls the shots' can be seen as deciding which actions or opportunities will happen. However, this requires a metaphorical/sports-based mapping from 'shots' to decisions and is not fully predictable for a B1 learner without prior exposure, so the expression is only partially transparent.

Etymology

Call the shots may come from old pool games where a player would call which ball to hit and where to put it with a shot. So the person who 'called the shots' controlled the game, which is why the phrase now means 'to be in control or make the important decisions'.