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to bitch and moan

to bitch and moan

8 9.6
To complain a lot in an annoying way
  • phrasal verb
  • /bɪtʃ ənd moʊn/
  • NSFW
translation icon : quejarse
  • A big-time screwup on my part, but it's too late to bitch and moan about it now.
  • bitch and moan all you want

Examples

  • It's unproductive to bitch and moan about something being broken and then not even attempt to find a way to fix it.

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  • Whenever I do my own stuff, you guys bitch and moan.

  • I bitch and moan about it.

  • You will bitch and moan about how much more it costs!

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  • Oh well, at least I voted so I can bitch and moan about things again for the next 4 years!

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  • And then they bitch and moan that capital punishment costs too much and takes too long.

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  • We bitch and moan all the time about how that sucks for us as fans.

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  • You bitch and moan because things don't go your way.

  • Everyone here is bitching and moaning, but no one has any ideas.

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  • I always seem to bitch and moan when the weather doesn't go my way.

Synonyms

to complain
vsto bitch and moan
1.0

To say you are unhappy about something and want it changed

is more repetitive and tiresome rather than a single expression of dissatisfaction
to bitch
vsto bitch and moan
  • NSFW
311 8.1

To complain a lot in an annoying way

is similar but emphasizes general persistent annoyance rather than single words
to whine
vsto bitch and moan
  • Informal
211 2.8

To complain in a high, annoying voice

is about ongoing annoying complaints rather than a particular voice quality
to moan
vsto bitch and moan
177 1.0

To make a low, long sound to show pain, discomfort, or displeasure

is about repeated verbal annoyance rather than a simple sound of displeasure
to grumble
vsto bitch and moan
41 3.7

To complain quietly in a low voice

is the same ongoing annoyance but often louder or more clearly heard
to gripe
vsto bitch and moan
  • Informal
38 5.6

To complain repeatedly about small things

is broader, stressing ongoing annoyance rather than just minor topics
to harp
vsto bitch and moan
  • Informal
30 6.6

To keep complaining about something in a way that annoys people

is similar but emphasizes general persistent annoyance, not repetition about one point
to harp on
vsto bitch and moan
  • Informal
23 6.7

Talk again and again about the same thing and annoy people

is broader persistent complaining rather than fixation on one point
to yammer
vsto bitch and moan
  • Informal
14 9.0

Talk loudly for a long time while complaining

is similar but centers on persistent complaining rather than noisy talking
to rant and rave
vsto bitch and moan
  • Informal
9 6.9

Shout angrily and complain for a long time

is persistent and annoying but usually less loud and more tiresome than anger
to grumble about
vsto bitch and moan
6 4.1

To complain quietly about something you do not like

is persistent and annoying but can be more openly expressed than muttering
to whinge
vsto bitch and moan
  • UK
5 8.1

To complain in an annoying way about small things

is the same persistent annoyance but not limited to minor issues
to piss and moan
vsto bitch and moan
  • Offensive
4 9.9

To complain a lot about small things and annoy others

is the same persistent annoyance but not tied to crude tone
to kvetch
vsto bitch and moan
  • Informal
4 9.9

To complain often about small things

shares persistence but focuses on being annoying rather than only trivial topics
to groan at
vsto bitch and moan
1 4.1

Make a low sound or complain to show you are annoyed at something

is persistent complaint that focuses on tiring others, not just expressing disapproval
to bellyache
vsto bitch and moan
  • Informal
1 6.8

To complain a lot in an annoying way

matches the persistent annoyance but can be less excessive in tone
to crab
vsto bitch and moan
  • Informal
1 7.3

To complain in a small, repeated way

is persistent annoyance but not limited to pettiness
to grizzle
vsto bitch and moan
  • UK
8.2

To complain in a sulky, childish way about small things

is persistent and tiring but not necessarily childish in tone
to yawp
vsto bitch and moan
9.9

Make a loud, rough sound like a shout to show anger or complaint

is persistent and tiresome complaining rather than a single harsh noise
to grutch
vsto bitch and moan
  • Archaic
9.9

To complain in a quiet, old-fashioned way

is contemporary persistent annoyance and often more irritating in everyday speech
to gruntled
vsto bitch and moan
  • Archaic
9.9

To complain quietly because you are unhappy

is specifically persistent and annoyingly repetitive, not just general dissatisfaction

Antonyms

3.2

To feel grateful for someone or something

3.5

To tolerate an unpleasant situation without complaining

How Complaining

to rant
  • Informal
70 4.8
to bitch and moan
  • NSFW
8 9.6
to complain
1.0
to moan
177 1.0
to grumble
41 3.7

Surface Forms

bitch and moan infinitive
bitching and moaning present participle
bitches and moans third person singular
bitched and moaned past participle

Morphology

bitch + and + moan

Both constituent verbs — 'bitch' (to complain) and 'moan' (to express complaint/distress) — directly convey the idea of complaining, and joining them with 'and' simply reinforces/intensifies that meaning. A B1 learner who knows the words would readily infer the combined meaning 'complain persistently or annoyingly'; the expression is compositional despite its informal/vulgar register.

Etymology

The verb bitch and moan joins two strong words: bitch (to complain sharply) and moan (to make a low, sad sound). Imagine someone who keeps making angry complaints and soft groans; they never stop, so the phrase means 'to complain' in an annoying, persistent way.