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to be an arsehole

to be an arsehole

1 9.9
Behave rudely and selfishly, ignoring other people's feelings
  • idiom
  • /biː ən ˈɑːshəʊl/
  • Offensive
translation icon : ser un imbécil
  • I'm not treating this like a joke, and I am not being an arsehole.

Examples

Synonyms

to act like a jerk
vsto be an arsehole
  • Offensive
9 8.4

To behave rudely or meanly toward other people

is the same behaviour but may stress selfishness more
to be such an arse
vsto be an arsehole
  • Offensive
1 9.9

To act rudely and annoy other people

focuses more on being rude or selfish rather than merely foolish
to be a dickwad
vsto be an arsehole
  • Offensive
1 9.9

Act in a rude, foolish way that annoys or upsets other people

focuses more on rude selfish or inconsiderate motives rather than foolishness
to douching
vsto be an arsehole
  • Offensive
9.9

To behave rudely and arrogantly toward other people

is similar but focuses more on selfishness rather than arrogance
to act like a dickface
vsto be an arsehole
  • Offensive
9.9

To behave very rudely and make other people angry or upset

is equally rude but can be less extreme or vulgar
to act like a cuntrag
vsto be an arsehole
  • Offensive
9.9

Behave in a very rude and insulting way to other people

is rude too but not necessarily as deliberately vulgar
to act like a churl
vsto be an arsehole
  • Offensive
9.9

To treat other people rudely and think only about yourself

is broader, covering rude or inconsiderate acts without boorish tone
to acting like a prick
vsto be an arsehole
  • Offensive
9.9

To behave in a rude and hurtful way to other people

covers rude or selfish acts but can be less intentionally hurtful
to be a scrote
vsto be an arsehole
  • Offensive
9.9

To act selfishly and treat other people badly

includes selfishness but also covers plain rudeness and inconsideration
to be a churl
vsto be an arsehole
  • Offensive
9.9

Act in a rude, unkind way toward other people

adds a sense of selfish or inconsiderate motive beyond mere bad manners
to be a shitbiscuit
vsto be an arsehole
  • Offensive
9.9

To act in a rude and unhelpful way

is similar but can feel more deliberately selfish or inconsiderate
to act like an arseface
vsto be an arsehole
  • Offensive
9.9

To behave in a rude and annoying way

places more weight on rudeness and selfish disregard
to act like an assmunch
vsto be an arsehole
  • Offensive
9.9

Behave in a rude, annoying, and foolish way toward other people

can be similar but implies more deliberate selfishness or rudeness
to act like an asshat
vsto be an arsehole
  • Offensive
9.9

Behave in a rude and stupid way

is broader highlighting selfish or inconsiderate motives rather than contempt only
to acting like an assbutt
vsto be an arsehole
  • Offensive
9.9

To behave in a rude and annoying way

often involves stronger rudeness and clear inconsideration rather than mere foolishness
to act like a horse's ass
vsto be an arsehole
  • Offensive
9.9

To behave rudely and foolishly in a way that annoys or embarrasses people

leans more toward selfish or inconsiderate behaviour than just embarrassment
to act like a douchecanoe
vsto be an arsehole
  • Offensive
9.9

Behave rudely and selfishly and annoy other people

is similar but may include more selfish or inconsiderate intent
to act like a total fucktwat
vsto be an arsehole
  • Offensive
9.9

Behave in a very rude and thoughtless way that upsets other people

shares offensiveness but can be used more broadly for selfish rudeness

Antonyms

1.0

Being kind and polite to others

534 1.0

Being helpful and caring toward other people

How Rude

offensive
  • Offensive
261 4.0
to be an arsehole
  • Offensive
1 9.9
discourtesy
2 5.5
rudely
25 1.3

Surface Forms

be an arsehole infinitive
been an arsehole past participle
being an arsehole present participle
is an arsehole third person singular

Morphology

be + an + arsehole

The meaning 'to behave in a rude, selfish, or inconsiderate manner' is directly and compositionally derived from 'be' (to exist or act as) plus the noun 'arsehole' (an insulting label for an unpleasant person). This construction follows a transparent 'be + noun' pattern found across languages, so a B1 learner who knows both constituents would readily infer the MWE meaning.

Etymology

The phrase be an arsehole may come from a simple, rude image: arse means the bottom and hole the opening, so calling someone that makes them seem like the most dirty or nasty part of a person. That's why it means 'to behave rudely or selfishly'.